TichielJuspien
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I'm 15 years old female in NZ and I can't take it anymore.
My mother remarried about 3 years ago and i had to live with a guy who i cannot take on as my father until now.
First, his behaviours towards me was okay but as the time passed, he became more and more intolerable until i can't take it anymore.
My mother feels the same.
But we cannot get rid of him because we fear the consequences after the divorce as he will take half my mother's hard earned fortune.
I also thought of going out of the house but i had to leave that idea because of my age and the fact that i can't leave my mum alone with that guy, also, why should i leave when the house he lives in is not even his!
His behaviours towards me now even put my ego into an edge and i even thought of committing suicide.
Home is getting more and more uncomfortable and i can clearly see my mother suffering more than i am. She even took up smokes again after 10 years of quiting it.
That guy threats my mum like a slave and his presence itself is getting uncomfortable. I'm also worried that i had developed paranoia as i occasionally have nightmares related this issue. Sometimes i feel that if i'm not strapped down, i might as well kill him myself.
Please, can anyone help me out with this issue?
I cannot leave my mum in pain.
My mother remarried about 3 years ago and i had to live with a guy who i cannot take on as my father until now.
First, his behaviours towards me was okay but as the time passed, he became more and more intolerable until i can't take it anymore.
My mother feels the same.
But we cannot get rid of him because we fear the consequences after the divorce as he will take half my mother's hard earned fortune.
I also thought of going out of the house but i had to leave that idea because of my age and the fact that i can't leave my mum alone with that guy, also, why should i leave when the house he lives in is not even his!
His behaviours towards me now even put my ego into an edge and i even thought of committing suicide.
Home is getting more and more uncomfortable and i can clearly see my mother suffering more than i am. She even took up smokes again after 10 years of quiting it.
That guy threats my mum like a slave and his presence itself is getting uncomfortable. I'm also worried that i had developed paranoia as i occasionally have nightmares related this issue. Sometimes i feel that if i'm not strapped down, i might as well kill him myself.
Please, can anyone help me out with this issue?
I cannot leave my mum in pain.
