I need help wylth a question about a defacs order

[Steven0533]

Jurisdiction

Georgia

My fiance and I are saying while she is in family drug court to keep her daughter,they caught us seeing each other the third time and removed her daughter from her saying that is was in the best interest of the child because she is in recovery from a drug addiction she has been clean and sober for over a year I have been for nearly six months,they are taking our daughter saying she violated a order me not her have been served with saying I wasn't suppose to be around either one of them.
What if anything can we do her court date is in ten days for her to sign over custody to the state she said she would refuse we need help any advise?

 

[army judge]

What if anything can we do her court date is in ten days for her to sign over custody to the state she said she would refuse we need help any advise?

She won't be allowed to sign away her parental rights.

Children aren't property or pets, that can be owned, or given away.

As far as you are concerned, boss, you might think long and hard why you would encourage a mother to give away her child to be with you, hot shot.

You, big man, have nothing to do with your friend's caourt case.

Why?

You aren't the baby's father.
You aren't married to the mother of the child.
You have no standing, as you have no legal relationship to the woman, other than someone who purports to be her friend; the kind of friend who encourages a mother to abandon her child to be with you, sarge.

 

[Steven0533]

She won't be allowed to sign away her parental rights.

Children aren't property or pets, that can be owned, or given away.

As far as you are concerned, boss, you might think long and hard why you would encourage a mother to give away her child to be with you, hot shot.

You, big man, have nothing to do with your friend's caourt case.

Why?

You aren't the baby's father.
You aren't married to the mother of the child.
You have no standing, as you have no legal relationship to the woman, other than someone who purports to be her friend; the kind of friend who encourages a mother to abandon her child to be with you, sarge.

We are trying to keep defacs from taking her, not trying to give her up.....
They have her in foster care ,and they have my girl in jail for the next month in a drug court violation because of our relationship, they are sayin that is being together is harmful to our daughter, it's completely Crazy because nither of us have any charges against us and have done nothing to be considered dangerous to our kid, how can we keep from signing over rights when she goes to court

 

[army judge]

how can we keep from signing over rights when she goes to court

I suggest you start by telling the state that you'll do whatever they want to prove you love your baby and want her back.

If that means not seeing each other until the state approves, play their game, do it with a smile.
resistance is futile.
You must so exactly as told and smile.
Now, if you had millions of dollars, you could hire a law firm to get the kid back.
Without money, you gotta shuffle, joke, and jive; and do whatever the big bad bosses want you to do.

 

[Steven0533]

I suggest you start by telling the state that you'll do whatever they want to prove you love your baby and want her back.

If that means not seeing each other until the state approves, play their game, do it with a smile.
resistance is futile.
You must so exactly as told and smile.
Now, if you had millions of dollars, you could hire a law firm to get the kid back.
Without money, you gotta shuffle, joke, and jive; and do whatever the big bad bosses want you to do.

 

[Steven0533]

Well she's not going to play there game and we are getting a lawyer to see what can be done .
We have already been trying to get approval but her caseworker hates me.
She told me that she doesn't like me and would do what she could to keep me from being with the woman who I love, my girl is pissed and our daughter is only 3 she absolutely adores me and I'm not going to walk away even if I go to jail over it ,
We just don't want to lose our daughter over something everyone that knows us thinks is absolutely stupid

 

[leslie82]

My fiance and I are saying while she is in family drug court to keep her daughter,they caught us seeing each other the third time and removed her daughter from her saying that is was in the best interest of the child because she is in recovery from a drug addiction she has been clean and sober for over a year I have been for nearly six months,they are taking our daughter saying she violated a order me not her have been served with saying I wasn't suppose to be around either one of them.
What if anything can we do her court date is in ten days for her to sign over custody to the state she said she would refuse we need help any advise?

Sentence structure and grammar are key...periods are nice too.

Anyway, if you weren't supposed to be around them then you should have stayed away in the interest of your daughter.

Is she actually your daughter or is she your fiancé's daughter? As in are you either the biological or legal father? If not, you need to leave her alone so she can keep her daughter.

The state does not involuntarily terminate parents' rights in cases like this. Obviously SOMEONE thinks you're a danger as the court ORDERED you to stay away. So stay away! And if she was smart she would stay the hell away from you to get her daughter.

Honestly if the two of you value your relationship more than the child neither of you deserves her.

Children still love parents or parental figures even if they are being abused...just fyi.

 

[Steven0533]

There is no order, nothing we either one have seen on paper,
We have never abused her in anyway,
Pfft......
Her drug court caseworker hates me,and has verbally said so,
There just making it as hard on us as possible,
They felt like her daughter was in danger of her to begin with because of her addiction,
It has been said that I have nothing to do with her case that they felt like she shouldn't be allowed to be with anyone.
We need legal advice, period,
We are trying to keep everything togather, and opinions expressed are bullshit unless it's from an actual attorney

 

[txls]

So go hire an attorney.

 

[leslie82]

There is no order, nothing we either one have seen on paper,
We have never abused her in anyway,
Pfft......
Her drug court caseworker hates me,and has verbally said so,
There just making it as hard on us as possible,
They felt like her daughter was in danger of her to begin with because of her addiction,
It has been said that I have nothing to do with her case that they felt like she shouldn't be allowed to be with anyone.
We need legal advice, period,
We are trying to keep everything togather, and opinions expressed are bullshit unless it's from an actual attorney

Obviously there was an order and you had to have gotten it as some point. Maybe it was during the time you two were busy getting high.

They don't just randomly take people's children away for no reason. You said she's been violated by drug court THREE times for seeing you. So you know there's an order. So your entire story of you didn't get served is bs.

If you want legal advice GET A LAWYER. This page doesn't give legal advice you only get that from a lawyer. Read the disclaimer.

If you don't like the views on here you can go elsewhere. Oh armyjudge IS a lawyer.

 

[army judge]

Well she's not going to play there game and we are getting a lawyer to see what can be done .
We have already been trying to get approval but her caseworker hates me.
She told me that she doesn't like me and would do what she could to keep me from being with the woman who I love, my girl is pissed and our daughter is only 3 she absolutely adores me and I'm not going to walk away even if I go to jail over it ,
We just don't want to lose our daughter over something everyone that knows us thinks is absolutely stupid

You do whatever it is you believe you need to do.
I have no quarrel with you, nor do I care what you do.
If you lose your kids, I won't shed a tear.
If you end up in prison becoming someone's cell-wife, not my problem.
What you achieve doesn't impact me on tiny bit.
What you lose, none of my business.
You are not one of the monkeys in my zoo, I care not what happens to you!