JenSchmiege
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The father of my child, since the baby was born in 04 he didnt want to be responsible. Last year I was fed up and packed me and my daughter up and got my own apartment. He found me and was telling me he missed me and he knew hed have to do right by us to be with us. Well now its March 08 and he moved in Sept 07 not wanting to pay rent, electricity, water,or daycare- by the way I have him on child support but not recieving anything First he pretended having a job so I wouldnt kick him out. But thats not the worse I footed his half the bills for 5 months straight and gave him an ultamatum. He got a job and WOW i am suppose to shut up right (NO!) We agreed that because I took care of him that he would pay rent by himself for equal amounts of time well that went out the window when rent was due and I PAID it becuase all he had was his first check only 200.00. And from there on has been a battle for his check to get cashed or handing it over when bills will already be OVERDUE- being that I already had to pay them. He is aware that rent is due on the first but doesnt care because I have my own HARD earned money paying for it. All warped and twisted he says hes doing what he needs to and he payed rent in the landlords eyes( because I did) that he doesnt need to move out and that I need to deal with him till next year because we resigned the lease. I put myself in a vulnerable position because I trusted him and now hes got me where he wants me. I want to evict him because he wont leave peacefully but Im scared hell break all my stuff when Im at work. HELP