Invasion of privacey,,,

jannie

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Tennessee
Began with late husbands son ..right after he passed..driving down the road to here a stuffed animal talking voice in my car...upon confronting his son ..pretty much admitted to doing so...it was an I Love you monkey...that I had graciously given to his son..although it was something that I had gotten for my husband when he was in the CLC getting chemo treatments..to up his spirits every night before hanging up ..hince he was in Johnson City..me in Knoxville,..I would have him squeeze the hanging monkey over his bed before hanging up...hince saying I Love You !!
Also threats from ex-wife of 34 yrs..court..done his kids wrong ..etc..hince grown kids all either late 30tys or late 20tys...no complaints from them..horrible...
Had one of her friends his sons that moved in next door to me..harressing me...actually repeating my phone conversations back to me I had had with my mother...sharing good times with husband..etc..she knew him before I did..
Beginning of and still is on familys part and work as well..not as debilating
Firgured out most likely what was happening was someone had bugged cell phone where they could hear what I was doing access my contacts..as well as track me..
Didn't figure out for a while due too mourning..didn't have the thought process nor energy to fight.
Googled how can someone bug your cell phone..came up as Good Morning America show had broadcast a show were a lady that had broken up with her boyfriend was
receiving texts from him asking her how she liked her dinner at the restaurant she
had actually dined at..etc..come to find out this is what had happened to her..he was arrested fined and served time..
YouTube came up showing how to download an attachement too text messages you cannot see that gives you access to someones phone where you can see their contacts..listen in on conversations....as well as hear everything that is going on in the room which that patient is in.
I would wake up at 0300 am hearing my alarm system being reset...only to go downstairs and the system was fine...come to find out also played back thru phone after recorded from me setting it..
Also discovered after obtaining a alarm system still someone coming in missing some of late husbands matching T-shirts we had purchased thru-out the years...
Anytime I spoke about going to the authorities or talking to someone about the situation...someone would do something else to scare me and/or intimidate me..
People I didn't know would come up too me and say things to me repeating comments...
Grief support group a friend of the neighbors..said something inappropriately then looked at me pointing to his temple and stated I'm in your head...had the instructor point out that sometimes widows..want others to be their late husbands..happens a lot...he did that to justify the neighbors in appropriate behavior..
Heard his phone on my line ringing on night when talking to my mother..
One year later my mom starting doing the same thing..
Then on month later my sister.
Then two months later my brother...
Sister would speak of events as though it was her instead of accurately speaking pertaining to the truth of the individual which it was really about or had occurred did this with me as well as my mother..(like she was trying to steal someones life for herself..spokey)Example..walking around my moms yard talking about the flowers and what kind they were and how they were blooming this year (like my mom normally does)etc...All the while having mother convinced of things in the past back 5 years ago that were said as well as recent was things I had said when it was her..
mother confused in 80tys...stated there was anything wrong with her when she was sick ...I took her to the ER pneumonia...etc..in hospital for two weeks..started to see my mother again as I knew her..like her old self..discharged not home two weeks..mockery again not the same once again...think it is coming from my sister and or brother one..
To this day this continues to happen on and off...neighbor moved however still one in the neighborhood that calms to be a Christian but thinks sure mockery is funny..almost as though it is evil..
Haven't had my phones changed as late husband got them for us and his message is on one ..comforting.
Next door neighbor that moved ..as followed me..had others follow me...would show up at places where I was out of the blew on more then one occasions..smile real big..scarey...also called my public phone number and deleted my phone messages on my machine that my late husband had left me thru the years that I had saved...
He would mention things in general or speak of for example He had a friend that had accidently deleted her late mothers messages off her phone which would scare me...then a week later I hear the phone machine pick up with no message played only to check it ..all gone...cryed for days.....
This is how cruel this people have been...
Suggestions
 
Cease contacts with people you no longer trust.

Change your phone number.
Buy a new phone, don't give the number to anyone but trusted associates.

Ignore people that disturb, annoy, harass you.
Avoid people you no longer trust.

If its intolerable, move and tell no one where you've gone.

Make new friends, don't share too many details about your personal life with others, it's none of their business.

Don't answer questions just because nosy people ask.

Keep your life private.

Talk about gardening, weather, politics, not about your personal life.
 
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