Is my evidence sufficient to help?

[12345678910vase]

First off I would like to tell you I am 19, and I just got out of high school, and I'm freaking out, and I really don't know what to do.

Now the problem:
I met this teacher on craigslist personals my senior year of high school (christmas break). I was of legal age (18), he was 25. Basically, we exchanged sexual comments to one another, he sent me a picture, and after the sexual portion we started getting to know each other. So, I obtained his name, where he worked, and it's weird because I managed to get a lot of personal information about this person because we had a lot in common. We were gonna meet up, but I declined because I was scared. So, then I started freaking out because I kept getting responses to my ad and I thought the only way I could get rid of it was to delete my email. So I deleted the email that I had talked to him with, and basically all the conversation we had vanished. & I permanently deleted my gmail account.

So, I forget about this whole thing and him because I didn't think I was gonna talk to him ever again.
I graduated, then I found out there was this teacher in my new school that works there now because my sister had told me. I cannot disclose what kind of teacher he is, but his type of job gave me a lot of time to visit him. Well, I realized it was the guy that I had met, but I wasn't sure so I gave myself a semester to figure it out. Then, on January before they went back to school I had asked him if he was the guy that I met.

He freaked out. I had to talk to the district because they called me, and I had to write a letter because they needed a letter. They questioned him, he's under suspicion, etc.

Evidence 1:
I proved that he said crude sexual things during the past semester, and was confirmed by the staff.

Evidence 2:
The simple basic things I remember about him relate to him in so many ways.

well... the thing is the district just needs physical proof of our conversation and I cannot find it anywhere, but I looked this weekend on the computer I used, and I found out:

Evidence 3:
I found out that even though you delete your gmail, your account with craigslist stays intact, and lucky me I figured out my password, and I got in, and I found the advertisement i posted!!!

Evidence4:
I should have done this before, but I looked through my web history and found out that I didn't delete everything. & I found one that linked to my gmail account that I had deleted, and it was the title of the email I had exchanged with a person (28 times as it said on the record), and the title said "big thick c*** teacher for you!"


BUT I'm not sure if i should turn iin the last 2 pieces i found asap because I'm really scared that if I do it might escalate into something bigger, like i'd have to go into court, and i'm just scared. I'm not even sure if the things i found this weekend are good enough. In a way I have lost my sympathy for him, and I kind of want him gone, but that's really cruel of me to say

what do you think? & if you can give me more advice of any type please do so.

& the other thing is my parents have no clue about this.

 

[disagreeable]

If you were 18 and he was not a teacher at the school, when you attended, why are you trying to destroy this mans career? Mind your own business.

 

[12345678910vase]

They're concerned about his behaviour. & I pretty much can't lie now and say I don't know anything because he won't turn in his computer, nor could I because the computer I used is the family computer, they are trying to find another way to confirm this e_e.

I have sympathy for the guy believe me I do, but it's hard to deal with this bc they already have important people working with them.

 

[shrinkmaster]

Without a court order or warrant you do not have to give them anything.

 

[disagreeable]

There is nothing illegal or immoral about a 25 yr old wanting to shtuppp an 18 yr old. In fact, I was shtuppping as many as I could, well into my 30's. There is no evidence he is trying to abuse his position as a teacher. He is attempting to be discreet. You need to respect that and butt out.

 

[Michael Wechsler]

There is nothing illegal or immoral about a 25 yr old wanting to shtuppp an 18 yr old. In fact, I was shtuppping as many as I could, well into my 30's. There is no evidence he is trying to abuse his position as a teacher. He is attempting to be discreet. You need to respect that and butt out.

I think the issue is that the school has found examples of questionable conduct by this 25 year old teacher and they commenced an investigation. They may have found correspondence with the OP and then contacted her about what happened. I didn't read from the OP that she contacted anyone - she said they contacted her? If so, I'm guessing that this may have happened as a result of all the craigs list sex wanted ads that people are stupid enough to post, e.g. members of Congress. Perhaps this 25 year old teacher never expected his school to be checking whether he was shtooping current students -- or potential students. He probably should have been mindful of this.

 

[disagreeable]

From what I get, she told her sister, who started passing the info around. It was picked up by administration who now wants to go on a witch hunt.

 

[mightymoose]

He may not have done anything illegal, but he may have violated some policy of his employer regarding professional conduct. If it is just the school investigating then you have no worry about court. As said above, you are not obligated to give anyone anything. He may be a bonehead, but what he did, as you describe it, is far different than trying to pick up on students at school.
Sounds like a witch hunt going on- but who knows what additional info or complaints the school has.