Thanks very much for your response. It gives us a little hope. Unfortunately, our lawyer thinks she has the law on her side. Not sure what to tell him.
All you can do is open probate, read the will, and await any challenges.
They were married for ten years, so this might be what she's claiming:
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Homestead Rights
HOMESTEAD RIGHTS. Article X Section 4(c) of the Florida Constitution limits who can receive Homestead property upon the death of an owner if he or she is survived by a spouse or a minor child. A surviving spouse is entitled to no less than a life estate in any property used as a homestead by the deceased spouse in Florida.
DEADLINE TO FILE FOR HOMESTEAD ELECTION AS TENANT IN COMMON. If a surviving spouse is left a life estate, he or she has six months from the decedent's date of death to make an election under Florida Statutes Section 723.401 to take a one-half interest in the Homestead as a tenant in common. This is a very important election, because in Florida, owning a life estate can often be more costly to maintain than the benefit is worth, given the high cost of ownership of real estate in Florida as a result of property taxes, insurance, and homeowner association dues. By making the election a spouse can force the sale of the property and receive 50% of the sales proceeds. Homestead rights are protected by the Florida Constitution and are in addition to any elective share, family allowance, or exempt property rights discussed below. No notice of the tenant in common election right needs to be given to the surviving spouse, making this six month deadline easy to miss.
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Another right she may assert:
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Elective Share or Election Against a Will
ELECTIVE SHARE. Under Florida probate law, a Surviving Spouse has a right to a 30% elective share of the estate of the deceased spouse valued as of the date of death. Florida Statutes Section 732.2035 is an all encompassing statute that includes in the elective estate the following items: Probate estate, pay on death (POD), transfer on death and similar accounts; jointly owned accounts or securities based on the amount the decedent could withdraw, jointly owned real estate, ½ of tenants by the entirety property, certain revocable transfers, including revocable living trusts, retained life estates and income interests, most retirement benefits, cash value of life insurance immediately prior to the death of the decedent, most gifts one year prior to death, and property transferred in satisfaction of the elective share prior to death. While debts of the decedent reduce the elective share, expenses of administration such as attorney fees do not reduce the value of the elective share. The elective share can also receive interest from the estate in some circumstances. The value of the elective share is initially satisfied from assets that have already passed to the surviving spouse, next from the probate estate, and finally from other assets included in the elective estate. For a more detailed calculation of the Florida Elective Share, go here.
DEADLINE FOR FILING FOR THE ELECTIVE SHARE. The elective share election must be made within the earlier of 6 months from the service of a Notice of Administration on the surviving spouse or, if no Notice of Administration is given, within two years of the date of death of the decedent pursuant to Florida Statutes Section 732.2135; Florida Probate Rule 5.360. If a temporary election is made it must be withdrawn within 8 months from the decedent's date of death or prior to the order for contribution. The personal representative shall serve all parties within 20 days of receipt of an Election to Take Elective Share along with a copy of the Election. An interested party then has 20 days of receipt of the Formal Notice to object.
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I suggest you see another lawyer, ASAP.
I'm not saying anything against YOUR lawyer.
I am saying, sometimes another lawyer sees a BROADER view, and has MORE vision.
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If she is awarded the life estate, she has duties to the estate.
She can't live their for FREE.
She must keep the property in good repair, at her expense, as well as keep the taxes up to date.
Should her claim for the Life Estate prevail, the remaindermen (the siblings or your issue) must ensure these protections are added to the Life estate, and that remedies exist is she fails.