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cynivansam

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Is it legal if the father of my kids girlfriend adds my children as their dependent under her insurance? Something that needed to be provided by him? And also they are NOT married and only been together 3yrs?
 
If her employer allows it, why do you care? Do you want your kids to have no health indurance?

You had children with a deadbeat. At least he's made a away to keep the kids insured.
 
The only reason its bothering me is because I have to pay him child support. He only provided 1 income, wouldnt that be consider 2 incomes since she wants to involve herself in it? Maybe i should of made myself more clearly. Either way I am to pay the premium of the insurance he provides. Our deal was he was supposed to apply for something more affordable for me. I have them under my employee insurance its too expensive for a single parent that I am. Yes my kids are insuranced but how far and legal is it too much to get yourself involved if they are not married? My thing is if you want to get yourself involved with somebodies else mess get involved in everything not certain things.
 
If you think he's violating the court order, hire a lawyer and take him before the judge. I think his girlfriend is kind to offer to insure your children.

My opinion doesn't matter. The judge who issued the order has the only opinion of record in your case.
 
The only reason its bothering me is because I have to pay him child support. He only provided 1 income, wouldnt that be consider 2 incomes since she wants to involve herself in it? Maybe i should of made myself more clearly. Either way I am to pay the premium of the insurance he provides. Our deal was he was supposed to apply for something more affordable for me. I have them under my employee insurance its too expensive for a single parent that I am. Yes my kids are insuranced but how far and legal is it too much to get yourself involved if they are not married? My thing is if you want to get yourself involved with somebodies else mess get involved in everything not certain things.



Your "thing" would be legally inaccurate ;)

His girlfriend will NEVER be obliged to support HIS kids.

I agree with AJ - his girlfriend is doing something actually rather nice (considering she has no obligation to do a darned thing)
 
The only reason its bothering me is because I have to pay him child support. He only provided 1 income, wouldnt that be consider 2 incomes since she wants to involve herself in it? Maybe i should of made myself more clearly. Either way I am to pay the premium of the insurance he provides. Our deal was he was supposed to apply for something more affordable for me. I have them under my employee insurance its too expensive for a single parent that I am. Yes my kids are insuranced but how far and legal is it too much to get yourself involved if they are not married? My thing is if you want to get yourself involved with somebodies else mess get involved in everything not certain things.

How sweet. You requested he seek a less expensive insurance for YOUR child. He found on through his GF...And not you think she should financially support YOUR children?

Please take this to court so the Judge will ORDER you to provide the insurance at 500.00 per month.
 
If her employer allows it, why do you care? Do you want your kids to have no health indurance?

You had children with a deadbeat. At least he's made a away to keep the kids insured.

How is the father a "deadbeat"? Sounds more like Mom is as SHE is here looking to place HER parental responsibilities on a legal stranger.
 
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