Shoplifting, Larceny, Robbery, Theft Just Stupid.....

[needtoknownow]

I am really terrified and looking for some advice. 16 yrs ago I was anorexic/bulemic and was arrested stealing groceries which totaled around $40. Took a class and put that behind me. I was 21 at the time. I now have 2 sons, my youngest has autism and mitochondrial disease and his Father will not help with his medical bills. I took an empty purse in a store and filled in with the "better quality" shampoo, facial cream, etc. and I got caught. I had a stupid moment, very stupid. I just wanted some nicer things for myself and I feel guilty when I spend money on myself and that's how I justified it in my head. The total of the merchandise was around $84.00. I am fully aware that there is NO justification for what I did and I am truly ashamed of myself. If I know anything it is that I will NEVER do this again.

I go to court in a week. I don't care about the fine...can they put me in jail?? I can't leave my kids, especially my youngest. He would be in total meltdown. And believe me when I say I realize I should have thought about that before I did something so stupid.

Appreciate any help/advice. Thanks.

 

[Guest]

It would help if you gave us the state. However much depends on if this is considered a 1st or 2nd offense. If 1st offense then I suspect fines, community service proabtion et. If 2nd offense jail is an option. You might consider enrolling (before court) in an Anti Shoplfiting course. This shows Judge you ar remorseful and are taking action. This could help sway him away from jail time. If you send the admin of this site a PM he can give you contact info for such a course you can do at home. I would also advise you talk to an Attorney so you can have better idea of what your dealing with. Many offer free consultations so take them up on it whether you hire them or not

 

[needtoknownow]

This is in Ohio. And thanks for for the advice. I will contact the admin.

 

[StoreDetectiveVet]

I will also advise you not to bring up the life problems at court, Judges see this as an "excuse" and sometimes then you make an example of people trying to give medical/family/etc as an excuse.