life changes

[thelake]

we have been married 18+ years and i was in a terrible accident which left me paralazed now all of a sudden we have all these problems and issues that went back to the beginning i think its just a way out. which i can't blame him but he is very abusivlle to me and drinks no stop. says i have ruined his life then he denils it when he sobers up. now its lawyer time. and i am scared to death. how can i start over now.
please help

 

[seniorjudge]

Ask your state bar association for a referral to a cheap or free lawyer in your area.

 

[calalily]

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I am so sorry for your troubles. What kind of help are you asking for; Legal or emotional support? You may be able to contact a local AA to find out where their program for spouses of alcoholics meets and attend some meetings. Also, if you are being abused you may have a women's shelter for battered women in your town, that can help you seek support and services. Verbal abuse is still abuse - so call and ask for help. They may be able to help you find legal council as well, depending on your situation. If you are disabled and unable to work, you may be able to file for Social Security disablility. Call your local Social Security office to check out if you qualify and for services that are available. This information is also available on-line. Hope this helps a little!