My wife has been secretly planning to divorce me with her ex-boyfriend. I have abused marijuana daily for years and we have 2 small children. I stopped immediately and offered to submit to drug screen and abuse classes anything for a chance to keep our family together. She is not interested, for she has made plans with her ex. I feel like if she wasn't absolutely sure that she will get the kids, then she might give me a chance. Am I already dead in the water?