Married but abandoned!!

[confusednmarried]

Hey I have been married for 2 years 11 months and my husband has always had a problem of leaving when he wanted and comming back days or even weeks later. This last time he left he didn't even say bye take his clothes or anything he just took all of our bill money and left. He has been gone a week now and I have lost everything because he took what money we had to pay the bills and I havent heard from him. We have 2 small children that he hasnt even called to check on and I just need to know what I need to do?

 

[army judge]

Wow!!!

What a dilemma.

My heart goes out to you.


I suggest you go to your nearest welfare office on Monday.


Public assistance was created for situations like yours.

You can at least get assistance with food and maybe some help with shelter.

You should also seek help through food pantries.

You might even qualify for medical assistance for your babies.


Other than that, you should speak with any family and see if they can help you.

That is more than enough to deal with right now.

But, you have to start somewhere.

God bless and keep us posted, please.

 

[bluemann33]

Get rid of him if he tries to come back. Sounds like he may be running out on drug binges while you and the children are left to suffer. Good luck.