monument for my father in law

[lalliwright]

my father in law died 9 years ago. my wife wants to put a small monument on his grave. her sister states that no one is going to put a monument on his grave because she doesn't want one. my wife and i are the only ones who take care of the grave site. can she do mthis?

 

[dee_dub]

Whether you have the right to erect a gravestone depends on a number of factors. Who has the deed to the plot? What do the cemetery rules state? And what jurisdiction is this?