Morality clause

[Mbrewer0112]

Jurisdiction

Kansas

What do I need to do to add a morality clause in our parenting plan? I feel like it's needed with the revolving door of girlfriends and it's doing detrimental things to my children.

 

[mightymoose]

You aren't likely to get what I think you are seeking, but you will need to go back through the process and obtain a new order. Things like this are usually worked out in meditation, but enforcing such things is pretty much impossible.

 

[army judge]

What do I need to do to add a morality clause in our parenting plan? I feel like it's needed with the revolving door of girlfriends and it's doing detrimental things to my children.

The time to concern yourself with a partner's morality is BEFORE you bed him or her.

Once the copulation has occurred, and the offspring appear, the HMS MORALITY has set sail to rescue Gilligan, the skipper, Mary Ann, Ginger, the Howells, and the Professor.

 

[Disabled Vet]

What do I need to do to add a morality clause in our parenting plan? I feel like it's needed with the revolving door of girlfriends and it's doing detrimental things to my children.

They are not "MY" children. They are "OUR" children. So as stated above that ship has sailed. You will need to contact a lawyer.

 

[txls]

You will have to go back to court to do so. I know many, many years when my brother divorced neither parent was allowed to have adult sleepovers when the kids were there. I don't know if you will even get that now a days, but a lawyer can tell you if they have seen morals clauses go through in recent times.

 

[zddoodah]

What do I need to do to add a morality clause in our parenting plan?

First of all, "morality clause" could describe a wide variety of provisions. Second, what do you mean by "parenting plan." Is it a court order that governs custody and visitation (and related matters) for your child(ren)? Or is it just some informal agreement between you and your child(ren)'s other parent(s)? Assuming you're talking about a court order, the answer is that the court will have to approve any modifications.

I feel like it's needed with the revolving door of girlfriends and it's doing detrimental things to my children.

What exactly do you envision this "morality clause" saying?

 

[InsideSpark]

What "Detrimental things" do you think your Ex having girlfriends is having on your children ? Are they promoting wild and unconsensual sex ? Handing out condoms and birth control to without permission or consent ? Has your ex has a serious relationship or just several flings ? Which part of your EX breaking up with anyone who he apparently considered not long term compatible with is offensive to your morals ?