Mother in NY in custody fight

[lschnackenopto]

hello: I am new to this forum. I am the mother of a 14 yr old daughter and a 10 yr old daughter. I had to do an order of protection in April to have thier father and my husband removed from the home. He is now fighting me for custody. My children have a medical issue which I have managed with thier doctors without him. A long time ago I had to make a choice between appeasing his denial or getting the kids treatment. He is now stating that in court that I have mental problems and have made everything up. There is a very long trail of medical records and treatment plans made by specialists. The kids have an IEP due to the medicl issue and ADHD. he is fighting for full medical decisions yet he never wanted to be a part before. He never has acted like a parent until now. Now he tries to make everyone think he's father of the year.
He blatenly favors the youngest child. I ahve had to get the oldest into therapy due to ow he treats her.
How do I best proceed in a custody battle where I have always been the parent and the one involved in thier care? I am completely terrified for me and my kids

 

[Michelle7319]

I feel your children's father are related to my children's father
Im involved in a custody battle myself
Their dad accused me of being crazy
To the neurologist who diagnosed my daughter with ADHD
My opinion is if you feel you and or your children are at risk for any type of abuse
Emotional , educational
Seek help through any domestic violence agencies
AsAp
Ask this organizations about referrals for a lawyer

I trusted my ex as
We are divorced for five years
He filed fake allegations
And a stay away order for me from my children and him
I did not realize how hostile and bitter he was
He now has temp custody

I feel my ex husband and sounds like your ex thrive on de meaning our self esteem and calling us mental when we advocate for our childrens true best interest based on their needs and wished not
On our interests based on our own perceptions as a parent

 

[Proserpina]

I feel your children's father are related to my children's father
Im involved in a custody battle myself
Their dad accused me of being crazy
To the neurologist who diagnosed my daughter with ADHD
My opinion is if you feel you and or your children are at risk for any type of abuse
Emotional , educational
Seek help through any domestic violence agencies
AsAp
Ask this organizations about referrals for a lawyer

I trusted my ex as
We are divorced for five years
He filed fake allegations
And a stay away order for me from my children and him
I did not realize how hostile and bitter he was
He now has temp custody

I feel my ex husband and sounds like your ex thrive on de meaning our self esteem and calling us mental when we advocate for our childrens true best interest based on their needs and wished not
On our interests based on our own perceptions as a parent

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