Mother Telling Sister to Stop Contact With Sister?

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unknown1776

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My biological father and his 2nd wife are going through a divorce, they having two children between each other. His wife sent me a no contact certified letter (not notarized) written up by her telling me to "cease and desist" all contact with my little sister and if this "isnt followed, legal action will be taken." Can she do this? I live in Pennsylvania.

Some background: The two children have dinner with their grandparents (on the fathers side) every other Friday, and the oldest son wants nothing to do with the Father because "he stole $16,000 out of my college fund money" (which he's being told that by the mother and yet she's posting online that it was $30,000 - she's also claimed that she's filed charges a year ago against the Father for this "embezzlement of money" and yet no charges have been brought to anyones attention because she has no proof of anything) and by what the Grandmother told the Father and I, the little girl loved the Easter Basket we made up for her for Easter, which included stuffed animals, toys and candy. The mother called the grandmother up and proceeded to tell her that the stuffed animals and candy that we gave her, she had to throw away because she thinks we put something inside items to intentionality hurt the little girl (how psychotic).

The father hasnt had visitation with the little girl (she's 12) for nearly a year and a half due to multiple attempts at picking her up at the agreed upon exchange point and she walking up to the car only to tell us that she doesnt want to go, without any explanation as to why not. Now I know for a fact in PA, that until the child is 14, it is law that the child's parent send them off with the other parent, regardless of if they want to go or not otherwise, its considered contempt of the custody agreement.
 
You don't have a lot of wiggle room here. The mother of you half sister can say you are harassing them if you keep pushing to spend time with your sister. Short of taking on a long expensive fight for visitation, with no clear outcome, I don't know what you can do. I am not even sure how you would even be able to do that if you were up to the challenge. With that said, if the father is able to have his visitations, the mother of you half sister can not stop him from letting you see her.

Your father needs to get back into court to have the visitation/custody order enforced and if a court decides she isn't complying and continues with the noncompliance, she may be held in contempt and would risk losing full custody to your father.
 
Just so that you understand; almost all the responders on any given board will also post on one or more others, and when you change the facts between one board and another it has an adverse affect on your credibility.
 
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