my ex boyfriend does he have any legal rights to baby hard situation HELP PLZ

[flyleaf]

this situation is really hard. my ex and i got pregnant, my ex boyfriend got big into drugs and several charges with drugs and breaking an entery, i couldn't stand being in his mother house where we stayed any longer, smell of drugs later parties and constant drug sells, so i got out, now i'm tryiung to start my life over and i'm engaged, but out of no where the mother of my ex boyfriend calls up my fiance, and when he told her not she called the next day and emailed me demanding money for phone use and house key, which i have returned all. as far as i know and was told i don't owe her anything else. my ex doesn't seem to even care it's just her. i want to know does he have any legal right to the baby when it will be born even tho he never paid a dime towards any thing, and never bothers with any thing concerning it. do they have any right to it and how can i make them leave us alone. please help

 

[Duranie]

He will have legal rights to the child is paternity is established and he takes you to court. Ignore all demands from his mom.

You decided to have a baby with this man and if you are already involved with another man, this bio dad will have some rights but he will have to take you to court. He doesn't owe you anything since the baby is not even born yet.

If you go on government assistance, you will be required to identify the father and file for CS so keep that in mind. If you want nothing to do with this man, avoid filng for assitance.

If this man you are with is going to love and treat this baby like his own, then that is great but its not often the case with boyfriends with babies that are not theirs. This baby should be your number 1 priority, try to focus on the best well being of the baby.

 

[flyleaf]

well my fiance will and i know he wants to get married before the baby is born so he cn be on the birthcertificate, but as for my ex he doesn't seem to show any concern just his mother and she e-mailed me asking if the baby is is or not , which he is but i don't wan to answer it what would be the consequences if i say yes. i just don't understand what they want i don't want money or any assistance from then. i just want them to leave me alone, plus her calling my fiance, is it a good idea him getting a order of protection so she stops calling? thank you soooo much i'm so worried

 

[flyleaf]

and i dont understan why would he have any rights i don't even think he wants em only because his mother whats something, he never paid or helped me with any thing, could i take him to court and get full custody since he has many charges with drugs not wokring, lazy, on probation and still using drugs, and currently sells drugs

 

[Duranie]

He only has rights if he takes you to court and asserts them. If your fiance signs the birth cert and your ex does not contest in a timely manner, then he is probably out of luck.

Your fiancee needs to realize though that if this relationship goes sour a year from now, he is the legal father of your child and there is no back peddling out of it.

All you can do is avoid communication with ex and his family and hope he drops off the face of the earth. Stop talking to them.

The way to avoid this in th future is not to have a baby with an idiot.

 

[flyleaf]

i ignored her emails, but would it be safe to get order of protection so she stops calling, and emailing. and would it be a good idea to get a lawyer. he wasn't an idiot just realy hard worker but some how got with drugs and changed. should i keep ignoring her emails and maybe get an order of protection and some lawyer assistance. or atleast go talk to a lawyer for my options, or is it going to far?

 

[Duranie]

Sure you can go ahead and request an RO, whetheror not it is granted it is up to a judge. There is nothing you can do about the bio dad taking you to court if it happens.