Thank you for your advice & I agree 100 perecent, the things sex will do to some people I wish she would just up and leave, if only it would be that easy I would gladly pay the full bills and be happy with my living situation restored but, she moved down from IL and knows no one else here who would help her (as all of our family has turned on her because of how she has acted to everyone) and her bum boyfriend doesn't have anywhere for her to go.