My wife's hidden past!

[sunshade75]

We live in NY now. After I married my wife 07 (in NY) we had moved to Florida. She tried to get many jobs but got turned down by all. That's when she decided to tell me she had a felony background which.....later her uncle told me she spent 5 years in jail for being involved some murder case in the late 90's!!!! Since then she has turned into an extreme narcissist. she has financially abused me to the point I'm 50 to 60 thousand dollars in debt. She had 2 kids from a past relationship but she spent all my income on her and the kids telling me I'm responsible for taking care of her and the kids, not their real father. I have finally gotten away from her and filling for a divorce. My question is, was our marriage under false pretenses and since she married me for my money not for love and to use and entrap me. In the divorced, could I get out of paying her maintenance? My family is worried that after all she has conned out of me that the court would make me give her even more money. I feel as if I'm a victim of a crime and even after a divorce I'll still be having a crime committed against me.(Fraud)? Thank you for your time.

 

[army judge]

We live in NY now. After I married my wife 07 (in NY) we had moved to Florida. She tried to get many jobs but got turned down by all. That's when she decided to tell me she had a felony background which.....later her uncle told me she spent 5 years in jail for being involved some murder case in the late 90's!!!! Since then she has turned into an extreme narcissist. she has financially abused me to the point I'm 50 to 60 thousand dollars in debt. She had 2 kids from a past relationship but she spent all my income on her and the kids telling me I'm responsible for taking care of her and the kids, not their real father. I have finally gotten away from her and filling for a divorce. My question is, was our marriage under false pretenses and since she married me for my money not for love and to use and entrap me. In the divorced, could I get out of paying her maintenance? My family is worried that after all she has conned out of me that the court would make me give her even more money. I feel as if I'm a victim of a crime and even after a divorce I'll still be having a crime committed against me.(Fraud)? Thank you for your time.

I STRONGLY encourage you to speak with your divorce attorney about ALL of this.

He or she is in the BEST position to offer you useful information relative to YOUR unique situation.

Bottom line, yes, you are on to something, but keep those thoughts between yourself and your divorce attorney, or the attorney you decide to use for other matters.

This is difficult, and it won't be easy to resolve.

But, if you stay the course, wait patently, you'll escape the clutches of this creature sooner or later; and you can rest assured her evil paw will be forever removed from your pocket.

That said, what she stole, you'll probably not recover, but you can CUT your losses.

 

[disagreeable]

Hopefully, the sex was good. You have not indicated anything actionable that I see.