skymann1989
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I went to jail for the first time because of getting in a verbal fight with my girlfriend of 5 years. Im really scared because nothing like this has ever happened to me before and have court soon and may be charged with false imprisonment and theft.
The fight started because I didn't come to bed because i fell asleep on the couch watching tv. I Woke up to upset girlfriend the next morning who just wanted me to come to bed and a bunch of texts explain that. and we started arguing over petty things and it just escalated from there. I said I wasn't going to move to woodland park anymore and she got more upset and said she was going to leave for me for good. So I went back to watching TV ignoring her and she was not happy that we couldn't talk it out so she said she was going to text my dad. I wanted to see her phone to see what she said. she wouldn't let me have it and she put it somewhere. I tried calling it to locate the phone and it wasn't ringing. We started fighting again and she wanted the keys and I gave her xterra keys and she was upset because she wanted the jeep(the newer vehicle with 4 wheel drive). I told her I wasn't going to give her the jeep keys because I paid for all the payments so far except insurance which her parents paid for. She replied "it doesn't matter the car is registered in my name"… after a while she gave up on finding the jeep keys while continuing to argue. She then blamed me for her phone being lost because she couldn't find it. I told her if she didn't find it soon ill help. She was upset and thought I wasn't telling her the truth about where her phone was. She then asked for my phone.. i told her no but I would call who ever she wanted as long as I was holding it on speaker phone because I thought she was going to take mine. She didn't want to that. So I asked her if she wanted food to try to diffuse the situation and switch topics of blaming me for her missing phone. She said no so I decide to make her a s'more anyways because it was the first thing I thought of and thought if she did eat it she would be less angry. But she didn't want it so I ate it. Then realizing I hadn't eat anything and didn't even have a appetite for the smore I decide to eat some edibles thinking its bad to only have a s'more as my only real food allday. She went back to bedroom for a while and came out no longer angry and instead crying. I asked her if I can help in anyway and she told me don't talk to me and walked out she left with no keys. So I walked out side with the xterra keys to give to her and saw her talking to someone and using someone's phone thinking she was going to leave to a friends. So I go back inside and because I saw that she was using someone else's phone I began looking for hers because I realized she was telling the truth about loosing her phone. After a quick search I give up and decided to smoke oil and try to forget about the fact she just left me. I decide to turn the stove on and make another smore and probably have some soup after that. So I preheat the stove and start cleaning up the cushions that I moved when looking for phone. The police showed up and I was shocked that she called them. I told them I was looking for the phone and gave them both sets of keys. They also asked what I was smoking I told them oil. They then put me in handcuffs. I was shocked that I was being arrested and realized it was prolly because I wouldn't give her the jeep keys.
I do believe she didn't want this to happen to me and wants to still continue to be with me in a healthy relationship. I just don't know what to do or what do u think is going to happen to me? Im scarred and alone. Because we are not allowed to talk till after I go to court. We have never been apart for this long and she keeps trying to contact me..
The fight started because I didn't come to bed because i fell asleep on the couch watching tv. I Woke up to upset girlfriend the next morning who just wanted me to come to bed and a bunch of texts explain that. and we started arguing over petty things and it just escalated from there. I said I wasn't going to move to woodland park anymore and she got more upset and said she was going to leave for me for good. So I went back to watching TV ignoring her and she was not happy that we couldn't talk it out so she said she was going to text my dad. I wanted to see her phone to see what she said. she wouldn't let me have it and she put it somewhere. I tried calling it to locate the phone and it wasn't ringing. We started fighting again and she wanted the keys and I gave her xterra keys and she was upset because she wanted the jeep(the newer vehicle with 4 wheel drive). I told her I wasn't going to give her the jeep keys because I paid for all the payments so far except insurance which her parents paid for. She replied "it doesn't matter the car is registered in my name"… after a while she gave up on finding the jeep keys while continuing to argue. She then blamed me for her phone being lost because she couldn't find it. I told her if she didn't find it soon ill help. She was upset and thought I wasn't telling her the truth about where her phone was. She then asked for my phone.. i told her no but I would call who ever she wanted as long as I was holding it on speaker phone because I thought she was going to take mine. She didn't want to that. So I asked her if she wanted food to try to diffuse the situation and switch topics of blaming me for her missing phone. She said no so I decide to make her a s'more anyways because it was the first thing I thought of and thought if she did eat it she would be less angry. But she didn't want it so I ate it. Then realizing I hadn't eat anything and didn't even have a appetite for the smore I decide to eat some edibles thinking its bad to only have a s'more as my only real food allday. She went back to bedroom for a while and came out no longer angry and instead crying. I asked her if I can help in anyway and she told me don't talk to me and walked out she left with no keys. So I walked out side with the xterra keys to give to her and saw her talking to someone and using someone's phone thinking she was going to leave to a friends. So I go back inside and because I saw that she was using someone else's phone I began looking for hers because I realized she was telling the truth about loosing her phone. After a quick search I give up and decided to smoke oil and try to forget about the fact she just left me. I decide to turn the stove on and make another smore and probably have some soup after that. So I preheat the stove and start cleaning up the cushions that I moved when looking for phone. The police showed up and I was shocked that she called them. I told them I was looking for the phone and gave them both sets of keys. They also asked what I was smoking I told them oil. They then put me in handcuffs. I was shocked that I was being arrested and realized it was prolly because I wouldn't give her the jeep keys.
I do believe she didn't want this to happen to me and wants to still continue to be with me in a healthy relationship. I just don't know what to do or what do u think is going to happen to me? Im scarred and alone. Because we are not allowed to talk till after I go to court. We have never been apart for this long and she keeps trying to contact me..