I have lived at my current rental home for a little over a year and a half now, I share it with a woman, her mother, and daughter. I rent a bedroom for $1100/mo. We have a month-to-month arrangement and I paid all my rents in cash to the woman. She actually rents the home from another man who doesn't live in town whom I have never met.
I found her on Craigslist and we have a verbal agreement of month-to-month, and when I moved in I paid first and last and agreed to give 30 days notice before vacating. I've enjoyed living with her.
I know money has been getting tight for her because she lost her job and took a lower paying one. She has been looking to downsize and get away from her mother and we talked about finding another place together that would accommodate her 150lb Labrador and house cats.
Some months she has asked me to pay rent early because she's short on cash which is fine. I got into the habit of paying about half my rent two weeks early every month. This month, however, I had an issue and was 8 days late on half the rent (this is the first time ever), but I let her know well in advance and she said that it would be okay because she too would be late and has been late for about the last 6 months. I was a little shocked when she said that, but obviously it didn't seem to be a problem since the landlord never came by or anything and I had never heard of any problems.
I paid her on the 8th. On the 9th, she comes into my room and says she is moving out to a new place that she went and looked at and I have to be out by the 1st. To me, this is very short notice because I was not planning to move, certainly not in three weeks. I also feel like she already knew she was leaving when I paid her on the 8th and purposefully didn't tell me even though I paid my "last month" upon move-in.
When I asked her about my month I paid upfront as "last month," she said that it wasn't "last month" that I paid, it was the security deposit. I distinctly remember our agreement with no security deposit (this is a bedroom) and just paying last month in advance, with 30 days notice (which she wasn't courteous enough to give me). She says she will not get the security deposit back until the landlord gives it back to her after she moves out and that she will let me know. My bedroom has zero damage.
I am concerned he will dock her part of the house on the deposit because he does not know she has pets here and took them to a friend's house the one time he visited to do maintenance. Although I will say she does take pretty good care of the house.
I don't want to talk to the official landlord because I feel like my agreement is with the woman that I live with who I pay my rent to, and not with the landlord. Another thing that I don't know is that he might actually be kicking her out due to delinquent rent, but I have no idea.
This puts me in a terrible position time-wise and financially and I don't know if I have any rights or if there is anything I can do.
I feel like we've had a good relationship up until now but everything just happened really quickly and I don't want to be screwed or take anyone to court. I'm at the point where I want to be out of here asap and take pictures of how nice the room is and be very firm on not leaving the house until she can show me what (if any) damage my "deposit" is covering. I want the $1100 extra I paid her when I moved in or I want some kind of collateral for it. Is this unreasonable?
Someone was kind enough to post on another thread a quick link about verbal agreements, but I don't know how this works since the woman I rented from wasn't the owner.
I found her on Craigslist and we have a verbal agreement of month-to-month, and when I moved in I paid first and last and agreed to give 30 days notice before vacating. I've enjoyed living with her.
I know money has been getting tight for her because she lost her job and took a lower paying one. She has been looking to downsize and get away from her mother and we talked about finding another place together that would accommodate her 150lb Labrador and house cats.
Some months she has asked me to pay rent early because she's short on cash which is fine. I got into the habit of paying about half my rent two weeks early every month. This month, however, I had an issue and was 8 days late on half the rent (this is the first time ever), but I let her know well in advance and she said that it would be okay because she too would be late and has been late for about the last 6 months. I was a little shocked when she said that, but obviously it didn't seem to be a problem since the landlord never came by or anything and I had never heard of any problems.
I paid her on the 8th. On the 9th, she comes into my room and says she is moving out to a new place that she went and looked at and I have to be out by the 1st. To me, this is very short notice because I was not planning to move, certainly not in three weeks. I also feel like she already knew she was leaving when I paid her on the 8th and purposefully didn't tell me even though I paid my "last month" upon move-in.
When I asked her about my month I paid upfront as "last month," she said that it wasn't "last month" that I paid, it was the security deposit. I distinctly remember our agreement with no security deposit (this is a bedroom) and just paying last month in advance, with 30 days notice (which she wasn't courteous enough to give me). She says she will not get the security deposit back until the landlord gives it back to her after she moves out and that she will let me know. My bedroom has zero damage.
I am concerned he will dock her part of the house on the deposit because he does not know she has pets here and took them to a friend's house the one time he visited to do maintenance. Although I will say she does take pretty good care of the house.
I don't want to talk to the official landlord because I feel like my agreement is with the woman that I live with who I pay my rent to, and not with the landlord. Another thing that I don't know is that he might actually be kicking her out due to delinquent rent, but I have no idea.
This puts me in a terrible position time-wise and financially and I don't know if I have any rights or if there is anything I can do.
I feel like we've had a good relationship up until now but everything just happened really quickly and I don't want to be screwed or take anyone to court. I'm at the point where I want to be out of here asap and take pictures of how nice the room is and be very firm on not leaving the house until she can show me what (if any) damage my "deposit" is covering. I want the $1100 extra I paid her when I moved in or I want some kind of collateral for it. Is this unreasonable?
Someone was kind enough to post on another thread a quick link about verbal agreements, but I don't know how this works since the woman I rented from wasn't the owner.
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