My "wife" filed for divorce in 2006. A year later in 2007 my wages were garnished with alimony and child support payments. Later on she skipped the state leaving our child behind and yet I still paid her child support. Well now I am going through the response to the divorce, which takes forever, but how am I suppose to let the judge know she committed fraud if he won't listen to me? The child and alimony paid takes most of my paychecks and now I can barely afford to live