My boyfriend and I are having a problem with an ex friend that could become ugly. The story is long and there are a lot of details so I will try to make this quick.
*Name has been changed.
I am 19
My boyfriend is 19.
Tim is in his 20's
J is 17 [16 when this happened]
Chris is 19 [18 when this happened]
At one point my boyfriend's friend *Tim had about an oz. of marijuana that he gave my bf because he needed to unload it. My bf proceeded to give it to his two friends *J and *Chris. A couple weeks later J said he didn't have the money and needed some time to pay it back [which he did]. J knew that if Chris did not have his half he would be held responsible. Monthes went by and we found out that both J and Chris has been in jail when they were younger for forcible rape of a child uner 10. Eventually Chris was arrested and is now in jail. J and my boyfriend fought it out for awhile and then my boyfriend went into his unlocked house when no one was home and took about 45 DVDs. Days later when J and his Dad returned - they came to my house and confronted my boyfriend. He gave back about 35 of them - all in the condition they left - but he had sold 10. J's Dad was furious and wanted to call the police, but didn't because his son would also be in trouble if this all came out. That was about three monthes ago. Since then we have hung out with J and we have given his Dad $140 for the DVD's he had to replace, most of which were second hand. He now wants another $60.00 He claims that if we do not give him more money he will press charges. My boyfriend knows he was wrong, but now J's dad is trying to blackmail us. Today J's dad asked me if I wanted to pay off my boyfriends debt by stripping for him - and then proceeded to tell me that his son will tell my boyfriend that I cheated on him with J, which is 100% not true.
I understand that this all sounds very immature and it is, but these are immature people we are dealing with. Morally my boyfriend was wrong. I am not asking for anyone to tell me morally what I need to/should do. Legally after three months, and after we have given him money, can he really do anything? What is the statue of limitations? What kind of trouble can my boyfriend and me for that matter get into if they go forward and call the police? Both my boyfriend and I both have clean records and have never been in trouble with the law before. J has 1 charge that I know of which is forcible rape of a child under 10. Anything anyone can tell me would really help. I just want this matter settled and put behind us.
*Name has been changed.
I am 19
My boyfriend is 19.
Tim is in his 20's
J is 17 [16 when this happened]
Chris is 19 [18 when this happened]
At one point my boyfriend's friend *Tim had about an oz. of marijuana that he gave my bf because he needed to unload it. My bf proceeded to give it to his two friends *J and *Chris. A couple weeks later J said he didn't have the money and needed some time to pay it back [which he did]. J knew that if Chris did not have his half he would be held responsible. Monthes went by and we found out that both J and Chris has been in jail when they were younger for forcible rape of a child uner 10. Eventually Chris was arrested and is now in jail. J and my boyfriend fought it out for awhile and then my boyfriend went into his unlocked house when no one was home and took about 45 DVDs. Days later when J and his Dad returned - they came to my house and confronted my boyfriend. He gave back about 35 of them - all in the condition they left - but he had sold 10. J's Dad was furious and wanted to call the police, but didn't because his son would also be in trouble if this all came out. That was about three monthes ago. Since then we have hung out with J and we have given his Dad $140 for the DVD's he had to replace, most of which were second hand. He now wants another $60.00 He claims that if we do not give him more money he will press charges. My boyfriend knows he was wrong, but now J's dad is trying to blackmail us. Today J's dad asked me if I wanted to pay off my boyfriends debt by stripping for him - and then proceeded to tell me that his son will tell my boyfriend that I cheated on him with J, which is 100% not true.
I understand that this all sounds very immature and it is, but these are immature people we are dealing with. Morally my boyfriend was wrong. I am not asking for anyone to tell me morally what I need to/should do. Legally after three months, and after we have given him money, can he really do anything? What is the statue of limitations? What kind of trouble can my boyfriend and me for that matter get into if they go forward and call the police? Both my boyfriend and I both have clean records and have never been in trouble with the law before. J has 1 charge that I know of which is forcible rape of a child under 10. Anything anyone can tell me would really help. I just want this matter settled and put behind us.