justafraidofjai
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my question is this, I was dating a man who is on probation, just recently got out of jail, he lived with me for awhile and I didn't know it at the time but he was cheating on me with other woman, one of which we both work with, he would ask me to text people to see if they had any pot or vicidain or oxycodone, and I would, I do not take pills or smoke pot, but I felt if I didn't do this for him at the time he would leave me, we hid our living together as we worked at the same place and dating was against policy. everything blew up when this one girl we work with told me , that he was sleeping with her and a bunch of other girls from work and around town, he finally left me and when he did,she started threatning me (she carries a loaded gun in the trunk of her car), when this all happened, I immediatly quit my job (where all of us worked together) I am afraid they will hurt me, and when my manager called me to find out what was going on, I had to tell her about the dating, the pill popping and how he was passing his drug tests,(which he was having a friend pee in a condom for him) and then he would place it under his privates to keep it warm until he emptied it into the container in the bathroom. All this ended up making me even more afraid of him and his friends, they text me threats and I left my apartment took most of my belongings and went to stay with a friend in a different town. A couple of days later, my friend and I drove to my apartment to get the rest of my stuff and the neighbors told me people had been in there and ransacked it. When we went to leave, someone had driven by and slashed her tire on her car, we had to have another of my friends bring a donut tire of hers over so we could leave. My ex boyfriend then preceeded to tell our boss that he never lived with me, never knew my little boy and never dated me. I decided to move to a different state because I am so afraid of them, my friend and I moved just a few days ago and after I explained everything to my manager I left. I was told by my old manager that they would give me a good reference for another job, as I had some interviews already set up in the new state I moved too, I had one interview the other day and it went really well, I left thinking I was a shoe in, the manger of the new place called me and told me that he got a bad reference from my old manager, I asked who he spoke to and he said some man, but couldn't remember his name, my manager was a woman, so I told him I thought my ex boyfriend had answered his questions about me, but he told me that instead of one job I was offered, if he even hired me it would be at a lesser position. I tried calling my old manager and she wouldn't answer the phone, so I left a voice mail, I then received a voicemail from my ex a day later saying he was the one who answered that managers reference call and he made sure I didn't get hired. Later I tried calling my old manager, I reached her and this is what she told me. She said that she wouldn't give me a good reference and that the police had already been called on me because I helped my ex boyfriend find pills and pot and that she had a text stating that . She told me the police probably have a trace on my cell phone and its just a matter of time before they arrest me for it, I am now so afraid that all I do is cry and I'm not sure what to do, the other people that had taken drugs, drank at work and threathened me are still working there, how can the police be after me when I didn't do any of this stuff she is accusing me of, and be tracking my cell phone, AFRAID OF BEING PUT IN JAIL.
