Please Help.....Confused

[beetlemom66]

I live in pa and am divorcing my husband of 19 years. It is a no fault divorce that we basically do all the work up front then send it over to the lawyer. My ex moved out last year and left me with our 2 daughters who are now 14/16. He had promised to get a part time job to help out with the girls, but never did. I now work 2 full time jobs to keep up with the mortgage and every day living expenses. My ex now refuses to pay anything, claiming that he doesnt owe me a penny since i work 2 jobs. Is this true? Yes I make more than him, but I have to work 2 jobs to do that.

 

[jacksgal]

Actually for now he is correct. Not because you work two jobs though. There is no court order in place. Without a court order he cannot be forced to pay anything. He has a moral obligation to help pay for the cost of raising his childeren but thats it for now. You need to get a support order in the works in your current Divorce case