I was romantically involved with a pro athlete for three years unaware he was married. within this three years there were promises, abortions, and also an tube pregnancy which cause me to almost lose my life along with an emergency surgery that I now still have health problems from and can not afford to see the doctor. this was a serious relationship (so I thought) I changed my plans on moving and based a lot of things on what he said and the state of our relationship which has now caused me to be in a bad position financially. When i told him i didnt want to deal with him anymore he started harrassing me and treating me. Do I have a legal argument???