brandielou
New Member
Hello,
I am new here and new to divorce so any help will be useful.
My husband told me 2 weeks ago he didn't love me and blamed it on an affiar I had almost 2 years ago. He said that even though he said he forgave me, he didn't so he wanted a divorce.
Then he quit coming home and found out that he was at this party with co-workers all night that included picking someone up and dropping someone off. When he got home I askd him about it and said he picked up a girl for a friend and went to walmart to buy beer. When I got out the receipt to look at it, he had also bought condoms. We got into an arguement and he got physically violent and called the police. After they looked at my injuries, he was taken to jail and they advised me I had 12 hours to do what I needed to do before he got out. Although I could stay because it was my legal residence, it was not a safe situation considering when he got out they told me "they are usually pissed" so my family came and actually got out all my things in enough time.
I looked over our phone records and found out that he has been talking to a girl he works with all the time. I know that is who he went to pick up and he has been having an affair but he didn't admit it. As I was printing out I tried to change the password and it sent him a text message and he reset the whole account to I can't get back in but I do have two months. My first question is: If I know he talked back and forth to her for several months earlier than what I have, does that make a difference in having them? If it does is there anything I or my lawyer can do to get them (suppena)? Are they that important or will it suffice for having just one month of them?
Two: We were only married three years so I know I don't get alimony but I am entitled to anything except my belongings? The word escapes me so I apologize, not the market value, but the difference between the purchase price and market value now, but just 3 years (he bought it 5 years ago but I only lived there 3). He makes twice as much as I do and the only place I have to go is my parents and since the house is in his name he told me that he would get the house and I would get nothing.
Any help would greatly be appreciated!!!!
I am new here and new to divorce so any help will be useful.
My husband told me 2 weeks ago he didn't love me and blamed it on an affiar I had almost 2 years ago. He said that even though he said he forgave me, he didn't so he wanted a divorce.
Then he quit coming home and found out that he was at this party with co-workers all night that included picking someone up and dropping someone off. When he got home I askd him about it and said he picked up a girl for a friend and went to walmart to buy beer. When I got out the receipt to look at it, he had also bought condoms. We got into an arguement and he got physically violent and called the police. After they looked at my injuries, he was taken to jail and they advised me I had 12 hours to do what I needed to do before he got out. Although I could stay because it was my legal residence, it was not a safe situation considering when he got out they told me "they are usually pissed" so my family came and actually got out all my things in enough time.
I looked over our phone records and found out that he has been talking to a girl he works with all the time. I know that is who he went to pick up and he has been having an affair but he didn't admit it. As I was printing out I tried to change the password and it sent him a text message and he reset the whole account to I can't get back in but I do have two months. My first question is: If I know he talked back and forth to her for several months earlier than what I have, does that make a difference in having them? If it does is there anything I or my lawyer can do to get them (suppena)? Are they that important or will it suffice for having just one month of them?
Two: We were only married three years so I know I don't get alimony but I am entitled to anything except my belongings? The word escapes me so I apologize, not the market value, but the difference between the purchase price and market value now, but just 3 years (he bought it 5 years ago but I only lived there 3). He makes twice as much as I do and the only place I have to go is my parents and since the house is in his name he told me that he would get the house and I would get nothing.
Any help would greatly be appreciated!!!!
