I have a two year old daughter with my ex boyfriend & he paid a processor to serve pe for visitation court documents.. This processor never served me in person & I was completely unaware of any court dates. I was not trying to dodge or runaway from this matter it was never an issue. I later moved to another state & after months found out through my Ex boyfriend that he won custody by default of me not showing up. I was completely unaware of an hearings & the processor has never seen me or given me documents. My Ex boyfriend purposely didn't inform of the court date hoping he would win by default. How do I prove I wasn't served?