middleagema
New Member
I'm a professional, live in Minnesota and just got caught for the first time shoplifting $92 worth of things at a grocery store. One item was in the cart, but not in my purse. I was taken to a back room and was told to take the things out of my purse. They had me sign a statement saying I took these items. At first I said I didn't want to sign and they wrote "refused to sign" and the LP guy told me this would be worse for me because I didn't cooperate. I asked if I was required to sign it and if it would be better for me, but he said he couldn't tell me what to do.
The LP asked me why I did this and I rambled on how I just got divorced, hate my life and I'm depressed (which is true). They took pictures of me and the stuff I took. The police were called and they gave me a ticket. I was cooperative and told the truth throughout. He asked me why I did this and I told him Christmas is coming and I wanted to get some things for my kids. I was told that I would be mailed a notice about when the court date will be. I didn't have ID with me either.
I plan on getting an attorney, but I have some questions:
Is this considered an arrest? Was signing that itemized list a confession of guilt? How could I now plead "not guilty?" Will anything I said be used against me? Will the LP from the store and/or their attorney show up at court? Will they show videos of me stealing?
My biggest fear is that neighbors and clients will find out. Is there a way to keep this out of the paper?
Since the value of the items was less than $500, I could face $1000 and/or 90 days in jail. Does the judge care if I'm a single parent?
I feel so desperate and have thought about changing my name (back to my maiden) or at least my address so I won't be identified by clients. If I did this, would my new address and name be used?
I've heard about diversion programs and shoplifting courses. Does that help this stay off my record? How do I find out about them?
I know this was really stupid and I'm really scared.
The LP asked me why I did this and I rambled on how I just got divorced, hate my life and I'm depressed (which is true). They took pictures of me and the stuff I took. The police were called and they gave me a ticket. I was cooperative and told the truth throughout. He asked me why I did this and I told him Christmas is coming and I wanted to get some things for my kids. I was told that I would be mailed a notice about when the court date will be. I didn't have ID with me either.
I plan on getting an attorney, but I have some questions:
Is this considered an arrest? Was signing that itemized list a confession of guilt? How could I now plead "not guilty?" Will anything I said be used against me? Will the LP from the store and/or their attorney show up at court? Will they show videos of me stealing?
My biggest fear is that neighbors and clients will find out. Is there a way to keep this out of the paper?
Since the value of the items was less than $500, I could face $1000 and/or 90 days in jail. Does the judge care if I'm a single parent?
I feel so desperate and have thought about changing my name (back to my maiden) or at least my address so I won't be identified by clients. If I did this, would my new address and name be used?
I've heard about diversion programs and shoplifting courses. Does that help this stay off my record? How do I find out about them?
I know this was really stupid and I'm really scared.