Question on custody

[seffysmiles]

My ex just got remarried and the new stepmom must believe that she is my replacement. Ex and I signed papers stating that he has every 23rd, and 24th till 9pm then I get them for Christmas. Ex's wife called and tried to bully me saying that I have to give him every other Christmas just like she has it with her ex, or they are taking me back to court to get it changed. I have full legal and physical custody he only has visitation rights, I don't do drugs, alcohol, stay out late, or abuse my kids. Can he get this changed in court if he already had agreed to it in writting? Also, ex's wife also has threatened me that they will take me back to get joint custody of my girls. Can this happen? He's hardly even with the girls, they spend their time with the ex's wife or their paternal grandparents. I just need things cleared up. Thank you to whoever responds.

 

[jacksgal]

First have no conversations with his wife. She is a legal stranger and has no impact on this issue. Yes he can go back to court and seek modification and might win since what his wife is asking is not unfair. It will be up to you to show why this change should not take place. Once more have no more conversations with this woman. If she tries tell her "nicely" that the child(ren) are yours and her husbands and any discussion about the child(ren) will be conducted between yourself and the child(rens) Father only!

 

[irish223]

I'm not sure that OP will have to prove why the change shouldn't happen. I believe the NCP will have to prove a change in circumstance that necessitates a modification of the original order.

I also suggest you document your previous conversations with the new wife, and, as Jacksgal suggested, have nothing more to do with her.

 

[lonelyinny]

tell stepmom if she doesnt quit contacting you you will take legal action( including a restraining order if need be). she has no rights or standing to do anything, and this and any matter concerning the kids is none of her business.

 

[irish223]

tell stepmom if she doesnt quit contacting you you will take legal action( including a restraining order if need be). she has no rights or standing to do anything, and this and any matter concerning the kids is none of her business.

Seriously???????? This thread is almost 2 years old.... AND YOU HAD NOTHING NEW TO SAY!!!!!!

Please STOP!

 

[Proserpina]

I reported the last one, Irish sweets