I have lived with my boyfriend for the past 7 years not leagally married. we have a beautiful daughter together, and now he is talking about how he is glad he never married me. I have been off work for the last year due to a lay-off and unable to find work. now he is talking about taking everything from me. The thing is we have a checking account together, a car title together, everything we own in the house we bought together. We have considered ourselves husband and wife for 7 years, but I have never used his last name as mine. We were waiting on the right time to get married, but I suppose he is right and its good we never did. My question is what do we do with all the propertie, (we don't own the house). Plus what about our daughter whom we both love very much. Is there a way to distribute it without a lawyer. I don't have any family or friends here... he does... I moved 1300 miles away for him, and now I'm stuck... what do I do?