My boyfriend is an alcoholic and he got drank 3 days ago. he broke the wall and a chair to release his anger when he was drank. However, he still tried to protect me for keeping me a distance from him. First, he locked himself in the bedroom to keep drinking and kept me in the living room. When he came out of the bedroom to stay in the living room. He asked me to go into the bedroom. At night, I was on bed and tried to get some rest but he laid on the floor at the end of the bed screaming of the whole body was so painful and asked God to help him. I got up and tried to check with him to see whether I could help him with anything. He pushed me away and I was off balance and fell on the mattress since the back of my knees was so close to the mattress. He pushed me and my knees bent and I fell on the edge of the mattress. My body then slipped off the mattress and my head landed on the heater next to the bed at the bottom of the wall. I was bleeding but I knew it wasn't serious hurt. After my boyfriend noticed that I was bleeding, he put a towel on my head and asked me to press it to stop the bleeding. He cried and apologized to me. He held me tight the whole night to make sure I was okay. He kept asking me whether I needed an ambulance. I said I didn't want to because I cannot afford it. He called his mom but no answer and he called his sister to ask for help. She said that she would call the cops but I convinced her that this is not helping my boyfriend to stop drinking to put him in jail. The next morning when he got up, he was still drank and went so crazy that kept screaming loud of the body pain. I was scared and didn't know what to do. I ran out of the apartment and called his mom to come over. His mom came with his step dad and she called the cops to report the incidence. He got arrested and his court date is in 2 days. I found out from the district attroney that he was put into a restraining order for not contacting me. I was shock and I really didn't want it to happen. We both love each other. With my comfort and partnership with him, he started to try to stop drinking for 2 months already but he just started again 3 days ago that I could not understand what triggered his alcohol craving. He didn't really push me to hurt me. It was an accident. Pls can anyone help me of how to get the judge to relief the restraining order. My boyfriend will be so depressed if he cannot stay with me. It can only put him in a stressful situation that is not helping him to stop drinking. He has no place to stay except with me. He is unemployed and no money at all. His mom seems not going to help him. I am so frustrated and I want to do something on the court date to ask the judge to relief the restraining order but don't know what is the right step to do. pls can someone help me. It's urgent because I only have 2 days to prepare. Thanks in advance for any useful advice.
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