sandymorgan
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Hello,
My ex has taken custody of my son. He is holding him and will not return him. We have never went to court for custody. My son is 10 years old. I have tried to reason with my ex and get him to return him but he refuses, I have went to court and filed papers but my ex husband has past kidnapping charges for taking his other children before it was the same story ( he left the country with them and cut communication with the mother). I am afraid hes going to leave if he's served. He has cut communication between my son and I. He might let me speak to him once a month for about 15 minutes (maybe) then he tells my son he has to get off the phone. He also has monitored calls but I am not sure if he is doing it now. The police have said there is nothing they can do because there is no custody arrangement. I sought legal advice and the lawyers told me to go get him but my ex is violent. he has a record for violent crimes and is an ex drug dealer with gang ties. ( which i was not aware of when I married him) and has said he would beat someone to death with no problem so obviously it would be dangerous to try to get my son. When I am allowed to speak to my son again ( if that happens) can I legally tell him to go to the police and tell them we wants to come to me? My ex husband has not enrolled him in school and my son is sad or crying everytime I speak to him. he said they ( ex and step mother) are saying bad things to him that he cant repeat. I had custody of my son for 9 1/2 years but his fathers name was not on the birth certificate. i got his name on the certificate and now he wont return him. My son has been there 7 months. Also we are in separate states. i filed for custody in my state but ex and son are in NY.
My ex has taken custody of my son. He is holding him and will not return him. We have never went to court for custody. My son is 10 years old. I have tried to reason with my ex and get him to return him but he refuses, I have went to court and filed papers but my ex husband has past kidnapping charges for taking his other children before it was the same story ( he left the country with them and cut communication with the mother). I am afraid hes going to leave if he's served. He has cut communication between my son and I. He might let me speak to him once a month for about 15 minutes (maybe) then he tells my son he has to get off the phone. He also has monitored calls but I am not sure if he is doing it now. The police have said there is nothing they can do because there is no custody arrangement. I sought legal advice and the lawyers told me to go get him but my ex is violent. he has a record for violent crimes and is an ex drug dealer with gang ties. ( which i was not aware of when I married him) and has said he would beat someone to death with no problem so obviously it would be dangerous to try to get my son. When I am allowed to speak to my son again ( if that happens) can I legally tell him to go to the police and tell them we wants to come to me? My ex husband has not enrolled him in school and my son is sad or crying everytime I speak to him. he said they ( ex and step mother) are saying bad things to him that he cant repeat. I had custody of my son for 9 1/2 years but his fathers name was not on the birth certificate. i got his name on the certificate and now he wont return him. My son has been there 7 months. Also we are in separate states. i filed for custody in my state but ex and son are in NY.
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