You'll have to. You've given us nothing to go on and you haven't asked a question.
I have been accumulating evidence on my wife violating a temporary court order to see about custody of our now 8 yr old daughter For almost 2 years.
Wife left for 4 yrs with no help to me or daughter. I filed for divorce and custody, which she counterfiled
Wife violated at least 6 items on the court order and committed perjury in court which I could have proved. Worst thing was moving in with boyfriend, when court order said he wasn't supposed to be there from 10 pm to 8 am. The judge was adamant about her rules.
Also there was an official home study from the court where I was chosen as the preferred parent.
There were a number of positive things in my favor including 18 personal references from professional people and friends.
Essentially I was in a great position.
Went to the mediation and my attorney discussed with me before mediator entered about witnesses and such to proceed with my case
One of the things that rings in my head was the words of the judge and the home study interviewer. "This is all about the child"
I heard this many times.
The first thing that the mediator said was "Normally these proceedings are about the child, but in this case it's in the interests of the parents."
Basically the only options given to me were him showing me a calender for me to pick the days for my daughter to be with me. It was gonna be a 50/50 split and that's that.
I was a bit angry and asked what about me getting full custody and wife getting visitation. He said no. No possibility of that and I had to choose days from the calender.
My attorney never interceded and even tried helping the mediator getting me to pick dates for when I could see my daughter.
I couldn't believe how I went from being in the driver's seat to having to settle for the 50/50 deal, and all of the offenses and abandonment issues didn't matter. I felt bad but my lawyer was there so I signed the papers.
He never told me that my signature was binding, with no changing my mind, and the case was over never challenge the wife's violations and negative issues including home study choosing me.
A couple of hours later after absorbing what happened, I emailed my attorney and said this was not acceptable. He said it was too late that my signature was binding.
I immediately fired him, as I felt he never had my interests as a priority to him. Don't have enough time to elaborate.
I'm not sure of what to do but I am fighting for my baby girl who doesn't want to be with her mom and boyfriend. Not to mention wife has a child with boyfriend while waiting
With a little research, I found that information to modify order about the mediation was a possibility.
I need help for sure. Pls