Seattle live-in bf won't move out after breakup

[doormatbf]

I'm a professional adult male in a 2 year bad relationship with another man. He charmed me, moved in and took over my life. It's my house, I paid for everything in it. I pay all utlilities, groceries, provide transportation, insurance, etc. In short I am the providor, he is the lazy, unemployed, non-contributing and a verbally/emotionally abusive bully. I broke up with him last week and asked him to leave and he is refusing. Our money is not co-mingled and there is a clear bank acct audit trail to prove I pay for it all, own it all.

Are we in any type of legal domestic partner or meretricious relationship by simply living together? We've not formalized anything between us to define us as anything other than dating.

Should I compel him to leave with an eviction notice, or simply call his family and ask them to come get him? He's not responding to the breakup and hasn't told his friends and family yet. Thanks for any advice...

 

[army judge]

You may have to have the deadbeat evicted.

Prior to that, I'd call the police and ask them to remove him.

If they believe what you've said (I did), they'll advise him to leave.

Or, they'll tell you that he has to be evicted.

So, I'd download and prepare a 30 day notice letter, instructing him that he has 30 days to leave. I'd also file eviction documents in your local eviction court.

I hope the cops can help. Going the eviction route could take 2-3 months, unless he gets violent and attacks you. If that happened, the cops could arrest him and you'd be free of this loser. Whenever you get this deadbeat out, don't ever let anyone else move in with you. Too many bums and deadbeats out there.