Separation / Divorce Terms

[paleview]

Hi:
I am in need of some advice and I am unsure of how to move forward. I am married 8 years and my husband and I own a home (no kids). We have not been intimate in 2 years but live like roommates. Recently, I have found some emails (not addressed to me) that he might not want to continue with the marriage and of course blames me for things that aren't even true. I am very emotional and don't know the right thing to do. I am also upset that if I ask for a separation (perhaps we can work things out) that he gets to live in our home and I have to go to a friends or somewhere. How does this work? Can I get an apartment and he pay the mortgage? of course if we divorce then whatever he paid on his own then I wont claim - Please - please help I don't have a place to go.

Thank you.
PV

 

[army judge]

You don't need legal advice.

You need spiritual advice or marital counseling.

I suggest you do the following:

Ask your friends, relatives, or co-workers for recommendations on good divorce lawyers;

Or, select a couple lawyers on your own;

Make an appointment to discuss obtaining a divorce;

Speak with the two or three attorneys, and select one to represent you.

The initial consultation will be free.

Eventually your lawyer can request your husband pay his fees, get you emergency support, temporary housing, and eventually some sort of settlement or distribution of your marital assets; plus your divorce.

 

[Proserpina]

OP, is there any reason you're unable to support yourself?