Seperation and Divorce from Pregnant Wife

[fallguy1914]

What are the complication/consequences in Separation from and or Divorce from My Pregnant Wife. I also have a 7 Year old Son. The issue is she has been sleeping in a separate room pushing 2 years now and will not consent to any counseling. I am at my limit as far as patience and don't see any future. Also is there a possibility of Joint Custody in New York State.

 

[army judge]

You need a lawyer. All that you seek is possible.

One day you should demand a DNA test.

If she's preggers now and hasn't slept with you in two years, isn't the baby in her brood pouch likely to have been created from the seed of another man?

We know that God hasn't done an immaculate conception in over 2,000 years.

See a lawyer. Spend some money on a lawyer to save it from being given to the promiscuous cow that is preggers!

 

[bluemann33]

There consequences will not be any different for you then if she was not pregnant if things are as you say. You have just as good of a chance to get joint custody as any other parent going through this as long as no other "issues" in your life. Get the DNA and an attorney and good luck.

 

[fallguy1914]

Thank You so much for the advice, I did not mention that we had actually been intimate a few times in the last 2 months before the pregnancy so there is a good chance it is mine. I just hear so many horror stories regarding custody and child support. I have no problems at all adhering to the Law but just want to be treated fairly during the seperation/divorce process.

 

[Disabled Vet]

with your comments and having a friend go this something like this as well. My buddy's wife was sleeping in another room as well. Then all the sudden she started having sex with him again. 3 years later the truth came out.... She found out she was pregnant with her lovers child, then started having sex with her husband so he would think the child was his.

Good luck with this issue but remember to keep your eyes open and speak with a lawyer. Lawyers are cheap compared to a life time of issue's.

 

[army judge]

There is still a greater chance it belongs to her unemployed or married lover!!!

She slept with you to delude you into believing the child is yours!


This is an old trick of certain promiscuous cows.

Request a DNA test.

When the cow howls, resists, and says; "Don't you trust me, honey?" You can reply, "I used to trust you, now I wish to verify your claims. DNA test please, if you love me!"

Thank You so much for the advice, I did not mention that we had actually been intimate a few times in the last 2 months before the pregnancy so there is a good chance it is mine. I just hear so many horror stories regarding custody and child support. I have no problems at all adhering to the Law but just want to be treated fairly during the seperation/divorce process.