Shared Parenting Advice

[csgk46143]

My ex husband and I have a shared parenting agreement for our 9 yr old son. Our son lives with me during the school year and his father during the summer. We live in 2 different states, being Indiana and Ohio.
My ex husband would like to explore the idea of him becoming the residential parent and our son going to school where he lives and me having the summers with him. I guess reversing the roles.
I have a 2 year old daughter and I am due in 6 weeks with my 3rd child. My ex husband feels that our son would get the extra attention he needs at this point in his life, going into adolesence. I am have to agree to a point, but I would feel as though he was taken away from me.

Any ideas or thoughts on this?????

 

[Duranie]

you have to decide if it is in your childs best interest to do this. If the custody order is changed, you would be changed to the NCP, therefore you possibly could have a child support obligation to Dad. If you do this, you need to be sure to have a new parenting plan and visitation schedule filed with the courts.

You do not have to agree to any of this. Dad can always serve you and you can go to court over it. Does he pay you child support? Is he going to ask any from you?