suzanne311
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In March, 1999, my step-father, who had been my Dad since I was 12, died unexpectedly 4 days before he would be in the Seattle area to visit me. I'll never be able to see it as a coincidence. In the year previous to his death, my mother called me 3 different times and said they were coming to visit. Each time she called 2-3 weeks later to say they couldn't come after all because of something like "my Dad thinks it's too rainy up there right now". Then when I talked to my Dad and he said he had bought plane tickets and I knew he was really coming, he died 4 days before I would see him. I have no idea what could have REALLY happened. I was excluded from his memorial service by my mother and I knew him better than anyone and appreciated him more, too. My niece from Illinois was there so my mother wanted her there but not me. I think she has insane jealousy about my Dad thinking so much of me. She thinks everything is for her and that I intentionally stole something from her because she has a personality disorder, similar to a psychopath.
Anyway, my older sister called me less than a month after his death and asked me for my Social Security number and gave me a very vague and nonspecific reason for wanting it. She omitted the real reason because she knew that if she had told me the truth, I never would have given it to her.
8 years later I found out my mother took whatever I was entitled in my parents' will, when my Dad was alive and replaced it with a trust fund controlled by my deceitful sister. It was degrading because it implies I'm incompetent and need a "money babysitter" like a little kid. I'm 55 years old. I was so angry about it that I confronted both of them and blew up at them for the first time in my life. They have ALWAYS done stuff like this and I was a fool to give my sister my SS#. I think I had denial about what they were really like.
I wrote them an official letter and refused the trust fund and then wrote a bunch of confrontational letters. I also left my mother a phone message and told her she was just like Hitler. They committed Identity Theft against me and I can't get any cooperation from the police. I have traumatic stress and I feel helpless and powerless, depressed and angry.
I've never gotten anything from my mother on numerous levels except pain, grief, misery and suffering. I don't know what to do about it.
Suzanne311
Anyway, my older sister called me less than a month after his death and asked me for my Social Security number and gave me a very vague and nonspecific reason for wanting it. She omitted the real reason because she knew that if she had told me the truth, I never would have given it to her.
8 years later I found out my mother took whatever I was entitled in my parents' will, when my Dad was alive and replaced it with a trust fund controlled by my deceitful sister. It was degrading because it implies I'm incompetent and need a "money babysitter" like a little kid. I'm 55 years old. I was so angry about it that I confronted both of them and blew up at them for the first time in my life. They have ALWAYS done stuff like this and I was a fool to give my sister my SS#. I think I had denial about what they were really like.
I wrote them an official letter and refused the trust fund and then wrote a bunch of confrontational letters. I also left my mother a phone message and told her she was just like Hitler. They committed Identity Theft against me and I can't get any cooperation from the police. I have traumatic stress and I feel helpless and powerless, depressed and angry.
I've never gotten anything from my mother on numerous levels except pain, grief, misery and suffering. I don't know what to do about it.
Suzanne311
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