In the middle of our nasty divorce, my now-ex and I got into a physical altercation. He called the police. After separate interviews with both of us, I was told my ex was to be arrested--because "you look worse than he does." (The officer was referring to scratches and bruises forming on my arm.) However, after a brief discussion with my ex--none of which I was privy to--the officer returned to me and asked me one question, "Do you have another place of residence." Which I took to mean--Did I have a place where I could go and cool off? To which I answered, "Yes." Because I had just signed a lease for a rental house upon the advice of our children's counselor. Our divorce was so ugly that he determined it was ill-advised for us to continue living together while negotiating a settlement. Anyway, long story short, I wound up being the one arrested instead. When I was released two days later, I finally got a copy of the police report. Big surprise--my ex had told the police that he never laid a hand on me except in self-defense. He also said that we were already divorced and that I didn't even live there. None of which was true--but of course I did not know what statements he had made to the police until after the fact. Now I understood the arresting officer's final question to me...
After that, I was forced to live apart from my children for the six weeks or so until we went to court. I went from living in my family home of 15 years to a rental house that didn't have one stick of furniture in it. I had no clothes, no food, and no vehicle (it had been impounded from my own driveway). When I finally did get my car back, I had to take the seats out of it just to have something to sit on. I had to hire a defense attorney to the tune of a non-refundable $8000.00 retainer fee. All because my now-ex-spouse lied to the police and they didn't bother to check the facts. Do I have a case to sue my ex and/or the police for restitution?
Thanks for your time.
After that, I was forced to live apart from my children for the six weeks or so until we went to court. I went from living in my family home of 15 years to a rental house that didn't have one stick of furniture in it. I had no clothes, no food, and no vehicle (it had been impounded from my own driveway). When I finally did get my car back, I had to take the seats out of it just to have something to sit on. I had to hire a defense attorney to the tune of a non-refundable $8000.00 retainer fee. All because my now-ex-spouse lied to the police and they didn't bother to check the facts. Do I have a case to sue my ex and/or the police for restitution?
Thanks for your time.