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BlynnS
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- Jurisdiction
- Tennessee
My husband found out that he has a child (from a girl he didn't exactly have a relationship with) who is now 9. The mother was in a relationship when the baby was born and had that man sign the affidavit of paternity in the hospital. We've known for several years but haven't been able to find an attorney that will even touch the case without a substantial amount upfront. In the past, we've made contact and offered to help out and he has even met her on a couple occasions (he didn't tell the child who exactly he was to her bc we don't want her confused or upset be the news). The problem is everything has been on her terms and bc the mother doesn't want her husband to know (the man that is legally my step daughters father) that she had been in contact with my husband she has refused to ever let or initiate any form of transitioning so that my husband can ever be in her life (even as a "friend" of the family, he seriously just wants to be a part of her life). We have 2 other kids and we don't really have the kind of cash flow that would allow a 5- 10k down payment on an attorney especially after we were told we could be guaranteed even a d.n.a. test bc of the situation. The mother now has us blocked and has had us blocked for a few years. This is not our first time searching for help on this matter but I ran across this page and figured I could try asking someone else again. What can we do? I need to mention that around the time she was born he had a few charges on his record nothing too extreme and his record is clear now. He works full time, has his license and can prove stability or whatever else the court would request. Can someone please help us figure out what steps we should take?