I am divorced and my 17 year old daughter is visiting her grandparents (my parents), my daughters mother and my ex-wife approved the visit. they would like to also visit my sister, visit some colleges she is interested in etc.., in the past we have just gone because I have been with her while visiting, I am not this time. Does she need approval from her mom everywhere she goes? That would not seem required, but the shared parenting language seems to read that way? Or am I just over-thinking this?