My daughter who is now 20 got caught stealing a small item at walmart. She went to jail and we got her out that night and have an upcoming court date in 2 wks. She has never been in any trouble before. I am afraid this will keep her out of her college program she is trying to get into and from getting a good job. On the court date, can we wait and ask the judge that day for a diversion? And will this put her on probation and comm. service, but keep it from BEING ON HER PERMANENET RECORD ?