wanting to move w/ my daughter..

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opthofer

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hello, i would like to know if it would be illegal or a problem if i were to move out of state from nj to colorado with my daughter and my boyfriend of 3 years, i am no longer with the babys father and he barely sees her and never pays child support and he barely even atempts to see her. we have never been to court and there is no custody aggreement. he is listed as the father on the birth certificate but thats all.

thank u for any feedback , it is greatly appreciated
 
Legally, you are free to move wherever you want. You MAY, however, need either the court's permission or permission from Dad to relocate THE CHILD.

If you move without notifying Dad, he can file immediately to have the child returned to NJ.

The fact that you're moving to be with a boyfriend, and a felon at that, will not be in your favor should this go in front of a judge.

However, the fact that Dad hasn't been a regular part of the child's life DOES help you.

Frankly I'd be speaking with an attorney immediately.
 
Have you talked to "dad" about the move? Tell him you will go to court and get child support if he does not agree with the move. If he does not care about the child as you say he may let the move happen with no fight if he does not have to pay child support. As pros. stated....speak with an attorney and good luck.
 
im not moving to be with my bf, we already live together and have been for the past year and he supports me and my daughter and we have another child on the way. the biological father doesnt pay for anything and only even atempts to see her on holidays, and even then its not always... she doesnt even kno who he is.
 
opthofer said:
im not moving to be with my bf, we already live together and have been for the past year and he supports me and my daughter and we have another child on the way. the biological father doesnt pay for anything and only even atempts to see her on holidays, and even then its not always... she doesnt even kno who he is.
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Why are YOU not providing support for your child? Why are you procreating when not able,or willing,to care financially for the already born child?

And WHY have you not told your daughter who her father is????

What do you think will happen to the children when your current BF dumps you? WHO will then support them? You? Nope.BF? Not likely.

Start thinking about more than a lover and what is actually BEST for the child/ren you brought into this world.
 
okay SPAZ, i do support my child as well as my boyfriend does ,we both work, and my daughter knows who her father is i let him see as much as he wanted untill he decided not to pay one dollar of child support and say he was coming to see her and then not come constantly, so ur not helpful and your rude. my boyfriend is a great man and he loves me the same as i love him and we have been together for 3 years. so thank u proserpina and blueman for the helpful information and baystate thank u for wasting a post.
 
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