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  1. Red Kayak

    Soon to be ex is trying to hold children in another state

    Yep. Because if you look down and see your feet, that's where you are standing, and that's where you are.
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    Meet a potential mother of the year, as we approach Mothers Day, 2021!

    But she's literally an Angel. And, by definition, "cute as a Button".
  3. Red Kayak

    Soon to be ex is trying to hold children in another state

    1) Don't send your child unless or until you have some form of court order. 2) File for divorce. Joint legal is okay, but ask for you to have primary physical custody. She is not going to like that, but she's the one that abandoned the marital home and kids. My cousin left her husband and...
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    Owner Change Owner sold house I have been renting for 4 years.

    Then you are a month to month tenant. Reread post #3 thoroughly, including the links. Note: 30 days notice... gives you only 30 days. However, as AJ noted, it does not sound like you have been given proper notice.
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    Can I start immediate danger process in Jefferson county if I divorced in oct 2020 in Umatilla co?

    I believe you are asking about a "Post-Judgment Request for Immediate Danger Order of Temporary Custody and Parenting Time". You need to consult a lawyer in Jefferson to determine whether (and how to) transfer the orders, since neither party currently resides in Umatilla County. Your local...
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    Other Criminal Charges & Offenses Please help

    Ultimately, she wants to be free of you. She wants you out of her life. Why are you insisting on staying married to her? Why are you insisting on staying in her life? Why are you not even entertaining the idea of coming to an equitable settlement between now and August? Clearly not true...
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    Other Criminal Charges & Offenses Please help

    Again, you are not coming across as a pleasant person. And if you cop an attitude like this in court, you deserve to get the book thrown at you.
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    Can I use song titles for product names?

    I see this as problematic: you are trying to profit by association. Sorry. My bad. Not enough coffee. Yes. Especially if you explicitly announce that they are named after songs. If you name a soap "Spring Day" and put a daffodil on the label, no one is going to say you're trying to...
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    Can I use song titles for product names?

    Actually... I think there would be a market for that. Scratch that: I *know* there would be a market for that. Great stocking stuffers. (What? I grew up in a mill town that the Charles went through. It would definitely appeal to our lowbrow sense on community humor.) To answer the...
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    Other Criminal Charges & Offenses Please help

    No. It is not blackmail: she wants to be rid of you. Period. And apparently you are unwilling to let her go. Is she asking for something unreasonable in the divorce settlement? I'll assume we are not talking about significant assets, so the only thing worth quibbling about is the...
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    sipulated custody order signed under coercion. what’s next?

    Were you held at gunpoint? No. So don't compare it. For emergency, temporary orders, they err on the side of caution. However, you would have the opportunity to contest such allegations at a follow up hearing before the temporary orders become a final order, if you chose to do to. And...
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    Attorney said not to expect more than $7-8k from settlement, didnt tell me his fees were that much

    That's male bovine hockey. No lawyer in their right mind is going to do more than a lick of work for you without some form of legally binding agreement to represent you. Go back to the website: you probably agreed to the Terms of Use. You might not have physically signed a piece of paper...
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    Easement/Trespassing

    At they very least, they should have taken it into consideration before building. Just common sense in site planning. It seems to me that if the situation were approached with more understanding - that yes, the other property has a need for an entrance/egress, and acting out of that attitude...
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    Apartment Neighbor Caught Leaving Sexually Offensive Notes On My Door

    I would *strongly* advise against knocking on the neighbor's door and confronting him. Yes, asking him will be viewed as confrontational. The notes are odd and quickly escalated. The neighbor could be harmless... or violent. It is hard to predict what irrational people will do. I...
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    Stealing mail

    Stop "forgetting". Forgiving is okay, but don't forget that these are unrepentant people. I second "don't talk to the police" if the police are asking questions. Don't give them "proof" of something that didn't happen by twisting statements into a confession. However, start reporting these...
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    Want divorce but can't locate spouse.

    You married in 2012. Were these kids born before or after your marriage in 2012? Because if the kids were born during the marriage, then you need to disestablish paternity as part of the divorce.
  17. Red Kayak

    sipulated custody order signed under coercion. what’s next?

    The problem is that you have no proof off this. You did not record it. It is not in writing. You never reported anything to the police. The option you are left with: exercise every minute of parenting time that you are allowed, and wait. There may be non-visitation opportunities to be present...
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