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  1. Red Kayak

    Sex Crimes, Sex Offenders Child molestation while being a minor themselves

    Look up "statute of limitations" for child molestation in California. Yes, as an adult you can be charged for past transgressions. Whether you are charged as an adult or as a minor for alleged actions committed as a minor depends on a variety of things. Similarly, the punishment for being...
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    Eviction Defense Friend forced to move

    "I fought the law, and the law won."
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    Pre-existing Deck

    In addition to everyone else's sage advice: GET YOUR OWN SURVEY. It's always possible that his survey is incorrect. Might as well confirm whether you're encroaching or not.
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    When a person dies befor getting the inhartance from another family member

    I am sorry to hear about your loss. Per your husband's posts in April, he fully intended for everything to go to you. Simple Will question I wish you luck.
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    booking photo

    Your "friend" has a drinking problem. She needs to address this drinking problem and the resultant charge(s) against her. Assuming the page that you printed up was from a publicly available source, do not worry.
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    Child support, international, Canada & USA

    You should hesitate in agreeing to direct payments, especially with someone you do not trust. See if the child support payments go through her state's child support enforcement agency. That way it is documented what you actually paid. If you make direct payments to her without a court...
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    Child support, international, Canada & USA

    Until the child is born, there is no baby. No child = no child support. Why would you sign anything?! The baby has not been born yet, so there is no birth certificate. If she really has a lawyer, and is really going through the court, then respond through the court. And your first...
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    Did i just get a free tv

    You know better than that. You "purchased a bundle" - they know where you are, what you have, and other info. Expect to pay.
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    Developing situation, guided by council. Still no results!

    Fact: Your girlfriend is still married. Fact: A romantic and/or sexual relationship where one of the parties is married is, by definition, an adulterous relationship. You are in an adulterous relationship. You and your girlfriend are adulterers. Fact: Violating the morality clause in the...
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    Post adoption issues with biological brother

    Then bio mom would know your names from him anyhow. Seriously, disengage from him completely.
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    Gave 30 day notice on month to month agreement

    That should be sufficient. If you've given proper notice and are out, why should he get to benefit from you overpaying? However, you should only have to state that 1) You gave proper notice that you were terminating your lease mm/dd/yr, 2) You completely vacated the property mm/dd/yy, 3) You...
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    Post adoption issues with biological brother

    File a police report. (So there is documentation that you were afraid of this lot.) File for a restraining order.
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    Trying to get a prenup while she's still arrogant

    Define "fast". As others have told you, it's not going to be overnight. Or days, or weeks. You want to rush things because you think you can screw her over in a weak, desperate moment. You are not coming across as respectful of the woman. Maybe you should have chose better, but you didn't...
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    Trying to get a prenup while she's still arrogant

    She doesn't hate you. She's disgusted. She feels a little bit of vomit in her mouth every time she realizes that she fell in love with a lie, that for you the marriage was just a cover, a deception so that you could pass for "normal". You revealed to her that the foundation of your marriage...
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    Prosecutor not presenting charges to grand jury

    And you're complaining that the prosecutor isn't presenting some or all of these charges to the grand jury? Are you looking a gift horse in the mouth? Or is the question how you can get some of these tossed? Really, I don't want to be on the road with you - you lack poor judgement. You're...
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    not seeking help in fear of abusing parent facing consequences

    It depends on what they hear. If what they hear is that your friend is being abused - sexually or otherwise - then they are mandated to report the abuse to the proper authorities. One does not confront the parent in such a case, one tries to remove the child from the dangerous situation. If...
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    Soon-to-be ex frequently requests that I have extra visitation time

    It might be a good idea to let the landlord/property management know that you no longer live there, and that you personally will not be signing a renewal lease. At some point, you should no longer be paying her household bills directly, but rather pay her child support and/or alimony.
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    Divorce papers filed in wrong county

    Have you tried calling Kansas Legal Services' 800 number?
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    Need to be in my son side

    Does this school participate in NJSTKD events? NJ State TKD Association Contact NJSTKD. They may have some advice on how to resolve this conflict.
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    Soon-to-be ex frequently requests that I have extra visitation time

    Just for clarification: the title to the home is in her name, and she either owned it free and clear prior to the marriage, or the mortgage is entirely in her name. As she does not work, does she have some ort of massive trust fund?
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