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    Child Custody and visitation pre divorce

    What matters to your lawyer is somewhat irrelevant. Will it matter to the judge or GAL is debatable. Because they will see that they have a great time with both you and Dad. Apparently their position changes after going home with Dad and spending time with him. It's not a bad thing, necessarily...
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    Child Custody and visitation pre divorce

    One thing I will add to @army judge 's post wrt children choosing... While the court may interview the children, they are also quite wise to language that indicates coaching. That's something you want to avoid at all costs. The only thing parents should "coach" their children on wrt speaking...
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    Child Custody and visitation pre divorce

    I will add - this is likely child support based. He gets overnights, you don't. How do you think child support is calculated?
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    Child Custody and visitation pre divorce

    I'm going to be blunt. A court wouldn't likely accept a 3-month-old nursing as a way to keep Dad from extended time with his child - a 3yo isn't likely to fly at all. At your children's ages? There is really no reason why they can't spend time with Dad while you work, and the two older ones...
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    Residential parent wants to force teen to live with me due to misbehavior

    Didn't want to quote @army judge 's graphic, but..... I remember my kids coming back from spending time with Dad (maybe 7 & 9yo?) and telling me "Dad said we could decide to live with him when we turn 12." Aaargh. My reply? "Well, it's not actually something you get to decide. But, if that's...
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    World "Redhead" Day Was May 26th

    I love gingers...
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    Residential parent wants to force teen to live with me due to misbehavior

    Okay. When your daughter moved to her Dad's and you "gave away" her room, where did she sleep when she came to stay with you? She has certainly stayed with you over the past three years, yes? At this point, if I were in your shoes, it would be time for a serious sit-down with your daughter...
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    Child Custody and visitation pre divorce

    How old are the children? Have they previously been in daycare? Depending on their ages, you could likely make an argument for daycare to be a wise preparatory method prior to starting school. Do your and your stbx's schedules alternate well enough for his proposal to work? Or is there overlap...
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    Child molester dating mom

    I was trying to explain (politely) why people have an issue. I can tell you that I've been on both sides of identifying posters. It's not pleasant. At least I only had myself to blame when I was on the wrong side....
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    Child molester dating mom

    I think many (myself included) have a problem with third parties blabbing other's business online. If your brother wants to do so? It's up to him. Really not your - or anyone else's - place. JMO. ETA: When I was getting divorced, I worked FT, cared for two young kids, and found time to research...
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    Child molester dating mom

    Gender may also matter. If the conviction is based on a 25yoM/16yoF, a 12yoM may not be a concern....
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    Child molester dating mom

    I'll add this one - they're very good on strategy. Child Custody and Divorce Forum • Index page
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    Grandparents being sued by grandsons mom to pay all her legal fees?

    So wait..... you engaged in some sort of litigation to gain rights with regard to this woman's child, as the grandparents. Where is your son? (I apologize up front if he's passed and offer my condolences.) She, apparently, had to pay to defend against your action. Depending on the specifics...
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    First time renter with questions

    Also… who is actually on the lease? and yes, great song.
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    Nursing Home Malpractice So much going wrong

    Have you called 911? That may at least get you help with the pressure wound, sepsis and UTI. Can you get hold of your patient Ombudsman? I don't know if this might help" Contact information Best of luck.
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    Deportation To Lebanon

    Dude - it's general policy to deport foreign individuals who break the law. While it feels unfair, that's just how it is. Sorry.
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    Best approach with 50/50 custody

    Why not just file yourself?
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    15 and pregnant

    To answer your question, your parents cannot force you to abort. Be aware that, in PA, abortions are (currently) legal to 24 weeks (5.5-6 mos). That said... (sorry, non-legal stuff coming, but important stuff anyway...) You need to think seriously about how you see this playing out. Marrying...
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    Got pulled over for the 1st time going 101 MPH in a 70 MPH on a FL highway, summoned to court

    I just want to say how refreshing it is for someone to own up to what they did. AND be polite about it!
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