bresdaddy03
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To start off, my oldest is 6 years old and I have not been a big part of her life. It was not my choice. I have made attempts, trying to get along with the mother and asking her why she doesnt want me to be in my daughters life and she wont come up with a good enough excuse. I tried taking her to court to get my visitations but the lawyer I had screwed me over and didnt file the paper work right and wanted me to pay him more money to do it over. Every where I turned I was failing. My cousin is my ex-g/f's step mom and was sneaking around and letting me see her on occiasion until she got older and was able to start telling. I have got my child support almost caught up because I have the worst luck with Jobs. I have no felonies or anything I just have a hard time with them.
Well within the last year my ex was letting me see my daughter almost every weekend, yet it was always EVERY weekend. I had to go see her at her house which at that point was over 30 mintues. I am married and have a three year old. She would do things to aggervate my wife and bless her she was able to keep her cool. She helped me out a lot with all of this keeping emails and status messages that she would advertise herself online and her phone number wanting someone to "snuggle" with and I am talking about my ex girlfriend not my wife, well in oct 09 my ex and I had an aggrement to where I had my oldest for three days and she had her for three days and we would split the 7th day. It was going very well and everyone we had my oldest around started to notice a big change in her within just 4 months. On the 16 of Feb she had gotten upset and aggervated over something that really had nothing to do with my daughter and expected us to just stop letting ppl come over to our house. When we had friends come over we would always have them over on nights we didnt have her, she always came over first things in the morning because I was the one who sent her to school due to the mothers work hours. Well she took her away because she wasnt getting her way over something completly out of our control. She had the cops come and take my daugher away and had both my children crying. My three year old wants her sissy back and I havent seen her since. My ex is in and out of relationships and has my daughter around them all within days of knowing these men. there has already been an issue brought up about her being forced to touch one of them and all kinds of different things. My daughter knows to much about sex and periods for her being 6 years old. I do not believe that her living with her mother is in her best intrest oh and my ex really dont even have her either, when she does she dont pay attention to her, yells at her. My daughter is usally with my ex's mother and step father. I want to get custody or go back to waht we had and I am having a very hard time trying to find a lawyer that wants to do what I want and at a reasonalbe price. I am a working dad and my wife stays home with our daughter due to it being cheper for her to stay home. I am so lost and I dont want to give up on my daughter. I dont expect any lawyer to do it for free but do to where I can actualy pay in my price range. Its hard, can anyone help me with some advice on what to do??? Legal aid isnt helping either.
Well within the last year my ex was letting me see my daughter almost every weekend, yet it was always EVERY weekend. I had to go see her at her house which at that point was over 30 mintues. I am married and have a three year old. She would do things to aggervate my wife and bless her she was able to keep her cool. She helped me out a lot with all of this keeping emails and status messages that she would advertise herself online and her phone number wanting someone to "snuggle" with and I am talking about my ex girlfriend not my wife, well in oct 09 my ex and I had an aggrement to where I had my oldest for three days and she had her for three days and we would split the 7th day. It was going very well and everyone we had my oldest around started to notice a big change in her within just 4 months. On the 16 of Feb she had gotten upset and aggervated over something that really had nothing to do with my daughter and expected us to just stop letting ppl come over to our house. When we had friends come over we would always have them over on nights we didnt have her, she always came over first things in the morning because I was the one who sent her to school due to the mothers work hours. Well she took her away because she wasnt getting her way over something completly out of our control. She had the cops come and take my daugher away and had both my children crying. My three year old wants her sissy back and I havent seen her since. My ex is in and out of relationships and has my daughter around them all within days of knowing these men. there has already been an issue brought up about her being forced to touch one of them and all kinds of different things. My daughter knows to much about sex and periods for her being 6 years old. I do not believe that her living with her mother is in her best intrest oh and my ex really dont even have her either, when she does she dont pay attention to her, yells at her. My daughter is usally with my ex's mother and step father. I want to get custody or go back to waht we had and I am having a very hard time trying to find a lawyer that wants to do what I want and at a reasonalbe price. I am a working dad and my wife stays home with our daughter due to it being cheper for her to stay home. I am so lost and I dont want to give up on my daughter. I dont expect any lawyer to do it for free but do to where I can actualy pay in my price range. Its hard, can anyone help me with some advice on what to do??? Legal aid isnt helping either.
