Wow, are you always so rude and harsh? I was hoping to find help, in this awful time, not to be scolded. Even the DMV and detective, sympathized with me. It wasn't necessary info, so i didn't mention that the entire side of the car had been side swiped. The bumper, hood, fenders and doors, have to be replaced. So no, $4200 wasn't a unrealistic price. Now if anyone else has any different advice, on what I can possibly do, I would really appreciate it.
I maintain your best course of action is to cooperate with the police, just as you've been doing.
Not much more you can do, until the police get back to you.
If you discover the name of the deceased owner, let me know, and I might be able to get you more information.
In a few words, here's your problem, mate.
The scammer has your money.
You have possession of a very suspicious car.
The car has sustained a great deal of damage.
You didn't cause the damage.
The car was damaged when you bought it from the scammer.
We know the owner is dead.
We know the owner was 72 years old.
We don't know how the owner died.
The police are investigating the matter.
You have cooperated with the police.
The relationship between you and the police is cordial at present.
Those are the most important facts WE KNOW, so far.
Continue to cooperate with the police.
Don't expect to get your money back, even when/if the scammer is arrested.
Why?
Scammers, dopers, and criminals (like the that found you) rarely are financially solvent.
Crime over the long term doesn't pay.
The lien on the car is another problem.
If you approach BoA about the lien, they might come at you for the car.
Now, do you see the picture I've painted, mate?
Your smartest play now is to hang on, wait, and hope the cops get lucky.
One longshot play, if you want to try it, is contact (or have a smart buddy contact) BoA about the lien.
You "buddy" could pose as a buyer doing due diligence because he/she wants to buy the car.
During that conversation, the BoA rep might reveal useful details to you.
As I said, it is a longshot.
I have seen it work, a time or two, if the "buddy" asks the right questions in a patient, calm, deliberative, diligent manner.