Today I was at Jc penny's with my 3 kids. I was having a bad day, one child knocked down a bunch of shelf I had my sweater and two shirts and a pair of shoes in my hands so I shoved everything in my bag before my child was hurt. I was angry and left the store. I was stopped once I was outside the store and was asked to come back in. I was taken back to an office. I did do what they said I did leave with un payed stuff I said I would pay for it but they wouldn't let me they said it was to late. What do I do? They did call the cops but they couldn't come. I told them my story and that what they thought it was. I have never been in trouble before. I am very scared I don't want to be in trouble. And this happened in kitsap county in Washington. Please help me out.
You may or may not be charged. Until you hear from the police (for a statement), the DA or the court (via summons or warrant), you do not have to act on anything. If you are charged, you have the right to remain silent should you choose. You might consider providing your side again to the police if they ask. But, if you engage legal counsel, you may be advised against that. Unfortunately for you, you have already provided an admission of sorts to store staff and that admission can be used against you in court.
It is also likely that there exists video of your actions. If the video does not support your contention of an unruly child and obvious distraction, then your explanation will fall flat and the intent can be implied.
Yes, the state has to show intent. But, they do not have to have it in black and white with you saying you intended to steal - it can be shown/implied through your actions.
If the police are not involved, you may be asked to pay a civil demand. Failure to pay a civil demand can result in the matter going to collections. If you signed any documents before you were released, it is very likely that you also signed a document acknowledging that you will take care of any future civil demand. If you did sign such a document, it makes the claim that much easier to make. Understand that if you fail to pay the demand and it goes to collections, you can add another $500 or so on top of the original amount (which is likely to be less).
You can make all the choices you want, just understand that those choices can have consequences.