I said she has never withheld visitation from me. She did allow me to take our child to day care at the LAST day of my visitation, however I was always late. Which is why she decided to not allow me anymore . Again, she has never once withheld visitation.
My child needs both father and mother equal times so that is why I believe strongly In doing everything equally.
Just realize you will never have 100% equal time. Especially as that kid gets older. Even parents with 50/50 I'm sure it's not exactly 50/50.
Okay she didn't withhold. Got it.
You still haven't answered what significant changes have happened since the last time you were in front of judge. If you can't provide that you aren't getting what you want. AND be prepared when you go to court that the judge asks you why you haven't been paying child support. Now your ex can ask for it to be waived I think. But until then you owe child support. Whether you want to pay it or not. Whether you agree with the law or not. Perhaps you should have had your ex waive it to start with. That was an option. I almost waived child support with my ex because I knew he wouldn't pay anything.